Why in the world is it that my fiance's ex wife insults me? I am totally in love with her kids and ex! I am so nice to her! Why is she so rude?
2007-01-19 04:46:24 · 12 answers · asked by miss allison 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SOoooo many reasons. You're "new" she's "old". He moved on. Jealousy. And because you are so nice, she has nothing to really complain about, so she'll just be rude. Like I always say: feeling good about yourself is the best revenge!
2007-01-19 04:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup nothing worse than seeing someone swoop in and take your place..... look at the old family photos you have almost literally pasted your head over hers!! Put yourself in her shoes for a second. Is she handling it properly, probably not, I'm just saying put yourself in her shoes and it won't be that hard to see why she is this way with you. I would take the last suggestion be nicer than nice to her. Just always be polite and kind no matter what she says or does find a way to be the bigger person. You don't want the kids growing up a rope in the middle of a tug of war. Good advice, be the bigger person always.
2007-01-19 12:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by rocknchickx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is jealous of you. Her kids love you. Her ex loves you. So she feels insecure.
2007-01-19 13:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by angels192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is either still hurt over this and she does not want to be replaced or upstaged, The most important thing for you to do is be yourself, be happy, remain positive and ignore her.
2007-01-19 12:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because her ex is treating you the way she always wanted to be treated.
2007-01-19 12:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes jealous of you
in her eyes you stole her life-you took her husband
now of course you probably didnt and awesome for being so good to her kids--shes still bitter-tell her to grow up
2007-01-19 12:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess, she is jealous. There is no reason for her act this way but some ladies are just stupid.
2007-01-19 12:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's jealous. Just be nicer than nice to her and it will never hurt you. You'll b the bigger person.
2007-01-19 12:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would venture a guess that you're younger than she?
2007-01-19 12:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously bitter. Dont let it get to you.
2007-01-19 12:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋