enjoying yourself? I know that all of you aren't this way, but the ones who are waste their time being miserable.
2007-01-19 04:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is my 2nd marriage and I have a grown daughter. I do understand that some people can't move on.
2007-01-19 04:44:24 · update #1
My husband's ex doesn't say two words to me cuz i give a look like you just better not fu#k with me and she doesn't she knows better cuz i am not going to tolerate it for one second i think she knows that plus her kid is coming to my house so she got no reason to say **** to me when we pay her 350.00 a month.
2007-01-19 05:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by samwise25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know not something with regards to the militia so i won't be in a position to help you to there. yet you could continuously circulate to court docket and record a restraining order, she sounds slightly nuts. you could shop all the loopy emails, and texts as info. Have your husband communicate over together with his mom, what she's doing is likewise loopy. If that doesn't paintings your husband and you may desire to distance your self's from her, replace your huge variety and so on, a minimum of till she calms down. If not something works you could continuously attempt kin counseling. i'm sorry, not purely did you get a loopy ex, yet you besides mght have been given a loopy mom in regulation.
2016-10-07 09:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had a problem with my ex's second wife, in fact we are very close friends, but I can give you some reasons why this happens.
1) You were the other woman
2) It hurts to feel replaced even though you don't really want to be back there. (Men feel this way too)
3) You aren't always nice to the kids.
Give her some time...I hope you will be understanding.
2007-01-19 04:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am too the "new wife" my husband's ex is constantly causing trouble with us mostly b/c they have 2 kids together. I keep telling myself she must be pretty miserable in her life to keep trying to do things to us..she went as low to have my husband's library card taken away when we moved out of the city...I couldn;t believe it all to get at him...its so stupid why cant they just go on with their lives!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 05:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Alapooh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that when me and my x split up, the only reason I ever contacted the new girlfriend was because my X was still calling and texting me all the time trying to get back together, and here is this poor girl who doesnt know. I forwarded her all the messages, recorded his voice, I even went over to his house when he invited me over for dinner once, Called her from the house and told her I was there, so she would believe me that this guy was a complete JERK. She was a really nice girl and me and her are friends now... She actually married him even tho I told him everything he was doing to her when they were together... She didnt believe me then, till he started cheating on her with others, and then when they broke up and he was dating someone else, he was doing the same thing with them. How crazy is that??
2007-01-19 04:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hear you woman. My new partner soon to be ex is very very angry about the whole thing, we live in a small town, he is a very known Doctor, and although their marriage was hell on earth (his own daughter told me as much), his ex will never let him have any peace. In my opinion, instead of fighting fire with fire, I fight hate with love. The more vicious she gets, the more loving and feminine and romantic I get. I never speak badly of her and make him feel on top of the world, I make him so happy that every poisonous move she makes get diffused as soon as he sees me. That way, I have his heart and mind in the right place and he thanks God every day for having me in his life and getting this very expensive divorce.
2007-01-19 04:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husbands ex-wife does this to me but through him. She holds his son over his head to get what she wants. She knows I hate her, he opened his big mouth and told her so.
2007-01-19 04:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem with my husbands ex wife. She didn't want him, but she didn't want anyone else to want him either, she wanted him to be miserable... me on the other hand, I was so very glad to see my ex husband get remarried, and wish them the best of luck.
2007-01-19 04:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by emtb9 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
oh amen
what more can we say but get a job a life something even a hobby
they are the ones looking life the fools acting like children
2007-01-19 04:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you an ex wife or is this your first marriage ? Maybe you will have a better understanding if and when you become one.
2007-01-19 04:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋