What do i do i think a gang of hardnut boys are after me i keep seeing them follow me and look at me while talking quitley and sometimes in the convasation i hear beat up and they keep looking at me and waiting for me at the end of school and then when i go pass in my car they look at me in a evil looking way with all there hoodies on. I really can't explain how i know they are after me but i know they are 80% sure! Some of them when in my class just crepp out sort of like they are getting ready to get me when i come out of the class but i always avoid them and walk another way. But this monday i feel they will catch me as i hear them talking to another boy about my name and monday that is all i heard. What do i do cause i don't want to get beat up but if i tell a teacher saying i am scared they really will be after me big time. (Also these boys are the sort of kids that will just break the law and don't care.)
2007-01-19 04:29:39 · 25 answers · asked by AJ Kid 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
PLEASE tell a teacher you trust, and also your parents.
2007-01-19 04:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ACT NOW!
Tell parents, the school - informing them of the individuals and that you are also going to inform police, then inform police of your concerns.
This may not prevent anything from happening to you, but it will be recorded and if something does happen to you (hopefully it will not), you will have good recourse - especially if the school are unwilling to do anything about this situation.
Bullying is a disgusting thing to have to live with and feeling that you are not safe, as you obviously do, is the worst thing imaginable - especially when nobody else is aware of your fear.
I am ashamed to say thatI may well have been considered a bully when I was younger and would do anything to turn back the clock, in this regard - even though I know I never actually hurt anyone physically; but this does not lessen the effects of intimidation that I asserted on others.
Please do not think that there is anything wrong with you!
Please do not wait to act. If you do, you may be hurt and this could be avoided at this point, from the sounds of things.
SCREAM IT OUT LOUD AND SHAME THESE THUGS.
LIVE YOUR LIFE
Good Luck Kid.
2007-01-19 13:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give someone a heads up about it, but let them know the whole situation (letting them know that they would retaliate if they are made aware of).
When in their presence, don't act intimidated, just continue on your path without giving away how you truly feel.
It might not hurt to use the net (since you are on here anyway) to check out some self-defense methods. There are so many ways to immobilize and stop and attacker that they usually don't suspect or see it coming, especially if they see you as easy prey. The best and most effective methods involve using leverage, so your muscle mass and weight are not an issue at all. I could go into detail about so many techniques that I would take up all your time. I have used a couple in the past when I lived in a larger city, and they worked beautifully. It's funny how people think you are helpless because of your size and (in my case) your sex. You will be surprised. Arm yourself with information, it's the best weapon you have. I have my concealed carry license, but you being on school grounds, I can't recommend that option. Take care! :)
2007-01-19 12:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'm not sure of your age. School could mean high school or college. If in high school, do you live with your parents? You should absolutely tell someone. You shouldn't have to be worried about this. Fear is an awful thing for anyone to carry around with them. I would tell my parents first...cause they will normally always go to the extreme for their children. Even if you may have done something to provoke these guys, they need to know you don't won't anymore trouble. I wouldn't go saying that I definitely knew they were out to "get me." Just say that you really sense trouble and don't want any. The down side to this, they may still be "after you" even after telling. Then, at least, people know to keep an eye on you. Also, if they were ignorant enough to continue with it all, it would be reported and they could be prosecuted. I'm sorry. I will pray for you.
2007-01-19 12:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by ashlynmadelynmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you do "nothing," "nothing" will change.
Some think that ignoring them will help, but I say "no."
Tell your parents and call the police.
Maybe they don't care about breaking the law, but they might rather pick on someone else who causes less trouble for them.
If school staff knows they can also look for it and help.
While beating them up yourself sounds quite "manly" everyone knows that they will just come back with a larger crew and wait until you are most volnerable. You have to make it not worth the effott.
Maybe your parents can talk with their parents. some boys act one way at school and their parents don't even know.
2007-01-19 12:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by JAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult situation that you find yourself in. I'd tell a teacher or someone at school that you feel comfortable telling and express to them that you don't want the word out because it will only make it worse with the boys. Tell them that you haven't been directly threatened but you feel strongly that they're up to something and it includes you. Have someone walk with you out to your car or something. You could just flat out ask the guys too. I don't know. It's a rough place to be in. As long as you're on school property though...whatever they try to do, should be stopped pretty immediately.
2007-01-19 12:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should be frightend of going about there day to day buiness wheather it is at school work or shopping. I advise you to talk to your parents or one of your teachers you get on well with. Ask one of your parents to follow you to school and home again they can stay in the background just to watch out for you. Find a friend to walk to and from school with. Talk to the boy that spoke too and mentioned your name see if he knows anything. You may just be paranoid about it all. just keep out their way but do something about it now.
2007-01-19 12:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to an adult that you trust with all of your heart and one that you know won't overreact and go to the school and put you in an even worse situation. If that's not possible, request to speak with your teacher or a guidance counselor privately, so no one will label you as a "snitch". You need to step up and do something, dear, or they will continue to try to make you fear them and may possibly act out on it, God forbid.
2007-01-19 12:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do they wanna beat you up? figure that out first. If it's cause you're a wimp, I suggest toughening up a little.
If it's cause you're an jerk, then take the beating.
If it's cause you're one tough mother, then headbutt them or something, show em who's boss.
They're probably going for you for one reason or another (good or bad) Get some friends to hang by you on monday if you're really worried
2007-01-19 12:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by DudeMan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
catch em in the bathroom one by one and give em all an asswhoopin. Cant do it. Speak softly and carry a big stick. Dont ever show anyone you are scared because those type of people are weak and prey on people that they think will be easy targets to make themselves feel better.
2007-01-19 12:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by hookemhorns903 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
AJ, I'm sorry to hear that you feel intimidated by this group of lads. I think that you should share your concerns with an adult that you trust, teacher, parent or whoever. Similarly you can contact Childline or Kidscape for advice.
PLEASE don't suffer in silence. Best wishes, J
2007-01-19 12:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by sirjulian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋