they have been married for 13years and they r both tire of each others crap, he is tire of her not bing there for him and their child and her ignoring every thing in their home, they both work and he has to come home and do every thing alwell while she does nothing but nag nag. like for exzample his little girl cought head lice he has been after her to fix the problem and she was to bussy doing nothing about it so he brought her to me and i fix the problem. im always helping him with things that she wont i have even gone over to there house to help him clean it kuz even on her day off she wont dont it he has to fight to make her do anything, and he is such a good man, thats why i think that we both fell for one another..please help
2007-01-19 04:19:57 · 5 answers · asked by marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stay out of it, if he didn't want to be with her, he would get a divorce and then you would be right to be with him, otherwise stay out of it! he is not miserable enough to leave her and its not your place to be in love with a married man!
2007-01-19 04:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You REALLY need to work on your spelling...I hope you don't help his daughter with that!
AND WHY HAVE YOU EVEN MET HIS CHILD?
You are the other woman! You have no business having a relationship with the child. If he wants out of the relationship, let his do that before you start moving in.
2007-01-19 13:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like you help frustrated husbands (men who don't have the courage to deal with their wives) stay in bad marriages. Thanks to all of your help, his situation at home doesn't seem so bad after all. With you picking up the slack, he'll probably stay with his wife forever. Cudos!
2007-01-19 13:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you and he really isnt happy then he'll file for divorce asap. If not then he's using you. One piece of advice..they rarely leave thier wives!
2007-01-19 12:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will see what you want to see, and what he wants you to see.
C'mon sister you want him.
Never mind about her.
Make your play and clean your own house with him init
2007-01-23 10:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋