what am i and what should i do?i feel sometimes alone but i dont need human warmness.. i`m a regular 16 boy from europe,and i ain`t socially rejected or something..i don`t miss girls,and i ain`t gay.. friends are somebody to mentain a relationship..but i feel i need more..i mean like a girlfriend..but i don`t need female(or guys, just to not have doubts)..so i`m kinda "vegetarian"what should i do..i respect all but i need something more.."great"sorry for my grammar..hope somebody understands me..
2007-01-19 04:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by thirst of knowing 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
oh..DID I SAYD I DONT NEED FEMALE ACOMPANIAMENT OR MALE.NO I DON`T NEED TO GET LAID OR I DON`T NEED GOD..still waiting for something more interesting and inventiv..somebody?
2007-01-19 05:22:53 · update #1
It sounds like you're still figuring things out, give yourself some time.
2007-01-19 04:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! It's very cool that you are from Europe - I lived in Germany most of my childhood and again after marriage for 3 1/2 years (Hanau). I loved it there and miss it very much.
You sound very mature for a 16 year old boy - I sounds like you are in a 'growing stage' in your life and even though you'd like female companionship, there's no room right now or the energy to put into a healthy relationship. That's okay - when the time is right, a nice girl will be available to complete your life. Have patience and start hanging around good places (like libraries, museums and start attending church) and you'll find more friends than you ever dreamed you could have!
I wish you well - God bless!
2007-01-19 12:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh... I know this feeling all too well. When I was younger, I often grappled with feelings of isolation & a certain "want" for a companion. It's a natural part of growing older. I'm not sure if "having" someone is going to make it better. I think there's something deeper at work here. Maybe your conciousness is telling you that you need something because you haven't figured out what your calling is. Everyone has something in them that they're meant to do or be, so perhaps it's your conciousness telling you to do some soul searching.
Or maybe I'm just an idiot. Go figure.
2007-01-19 12:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by otc108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know either. That is the most confusing question I have ever read. You may want to talk to someone with a degree (not meaning that in a negative way at all.) You sound very confused. Plus u r only 16. You are at a point in your life where things are all going to seem confusing, even your brain.
2007-01-19 12:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kamryn's Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Possibly some soul searching, as a lot of people your age don't know what they want, yet still long for something they don't have. It's very normal. You'll eventually come to a point in your life where you will feel confertable with yourself.
2007-01-19 12:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by justinandbarbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always feel the same get a girl and share all your secrets with not a friend and not a best friend but a girl which you get really close to and then most of your problems will be solved.
a girl which you can trust.
2007-01-19 12:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are an introvert and craving mental stimulation without the obligations that come from actual social relationships.
Work on improving your English. Only the ignorant use the word "ain't."
2007-01-19 12:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Big & Useful 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
one word buddy...
God
no not really
you need to find purpose in your life first because it seems that somewhere along the line you lost it... and now you are trying to find you "self"
dont worry about it i went through the same thing too...
youll be fine...
and this is such a cliche but its a process.....
Goodluck!
2007-01-19 12:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by STYLES M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow !?
U're lonely ??? Let's make friends with somebody else !!! (Including me !!!) (^.^) !!!
Maybe u should listen to music,watch funny films,commics and play more games ???
2007-01-19 12:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by crystal_heart100 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go see a therapist,seriously. talking it out does help,plus you can get proffesional feed back.maybe you need meds.good luck
2007-01-19 12:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋