Who is pregnant.....I need your help?

Question

This is very embarssing to ask and i know i will get some cheeky comments but here it goes.....

I was 2months pregnant...I had a miscarriage 2weeks ago...

However my partner broke up with me as he thinks I was lying about it...;

In desperate attempt to save my relastionship I told him I can proof i werent lying i still have the pregnancy test i took at home..

So you see my problem if i dont show him one he will defo think i am lying!!

I cant show him a pregnancy test as I didnt keep it!!

I cant do another one as I miscarrige

Will someone please I will even give you some money Please send me a pregnancy test I know this is such a werid ???

But i cant lose my boyfriend over something like this...

Please contact me via email [e-mail] if you can help me

PLEASE no cheeky messages or anything if you dont have anything to say dont say and if you have any other suggestions then that would be handy

ok ill be honest he doesnt believe me as i lied to him about it before this was years ago....when i was younger and a bit immature..!! i know its not good...

And this time we had a agruement broke up over something little...we would have got back together but when i told him i was pregnant i think he thought it was a desperate attempt to keep him and it got him more angry

when i did a pregnancy test i never went to the doctor...as i have been so upset about me and my bf and not knowing what to do that i never went. When i realized i was having a miscarriage i went to hospital WHO WERE ACTUALLY VERY HEARTLESS AND COLD they said you have miscarriaged then they looked in me etc...no need go in details then sent me home...there is no documention as there was doctor opt in the first place

i have done a test or i wouldnt be asking for help

my bf and me didnt break up because of this but this is stopping us from being together as he thinks i would really lie about something like this to get him back after what we were fighting about in the first place...if we arent meant to be fine!! but i dont want to loose 3yrs over this....

Answer 1

I really feel bad for you - two losses in such a short period of time. Do yourself a favor, though, and don't worry about your boyfriend. He sounds like a real jerk to leave you over something like that, and you'd really be crazy to think that he won't run out on you over something petty down the road, pee stick or not. Don't prolong the inevitable - just move on!

Answer 2

If a man does not believe you over such a major issue, and instead of giving you emotional support over what clearly would have been a difficult time for you, and instead he leaves you, the issues are obviously a lot deeper. This relationship clearly was not strong to start with anyway - there is no way you should want him back - you don't need to prove yourself, you have suffered enough. As if this bloke was looking for a way out. I'll tell you what - even if somebody does send you a positive pregnancy test, it still won't be enough for your boyfriend, he'll move on to something else to blame, just to try to leave you anyway. He's left you, and in my opinion, you've had a lucky escape. Sorry for your loss, but your boyfriend is a very cold and heartless person.

Answer 3

Did you see a doctor? Can you get proof from the doctor? Or even see a doctor to get proof that your body is healing from this? If he doesn't believe you, I know this is hard but you can do better than him. A miscarriage is a hard thing to go through. I had one four years ago and even though I was young and didn't plan the baby, I miss it so much and cry almost every day over it sometimes. Even more so when I am pregnant. I hope everything works out for you, and instead of trying to convince your bf that your were pregnant, you need to grieve your loss and try and heal form this big bump in the road. Good luck and I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 4

That is an odd request, but I know people get desperate when they feel they are loosing something or someone they love. The only problem is that someone who really loves and cares for you would NEVER leave you after such a traumatic event. He is not worth the trouble. Also, someone elses pregnancy test would equal someone elses urine. You do not know who's it is and what they could have. It would be very unsanitary. Also, by the time it got to you in the mail, the results would be gone. Most pregnancy tests only show the results for 24-72 hours after they have been used.

Answer 5

Umm, if you had a miscarriage then you should have seen a doctor anyways... then you would have documentation. Why would you want to keep someone that thinks you are lying by lying? Were you really pregnant.. because this is pretty odd. Leave the guy and count your blessings that faith did not intend on you to have to put up with him forever.

Answer 6

I am sorry to sound a heartless cow but why on earth would u lie the 1st time bout been pregnant if u ask me I think ur mouth ran away with u again and u weren't pregnant at all this time round cause I don't know any hosptial that wouldn't do up any paper work on a woman if they miscarriaged surely the hosptial would want to keep someting like that on file for future references.

Answer 7

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I was 8 weeks (2 months) when I had a miscarriage in August.I was showing positive on pregnancy tests for three weeks after my miscarriage.

You may still be able to take a test and have it come back positive.

Answer 8

If you were indeed pregnant then your body still has the pregnancy hormones. I had a miscarriage and I had hormones over a month afterwards. Take the test. Although if he doesnt trust you over this, this could say alot about him.

Answer 9

Why on earth should you have to prove anything!! If this so called man says he dosnt believe you, then your better off without him,
It may not seem like that now, but there are plenty of men out there, that will treat you with the care and consideration you deserve..
Look after yourself, you need so think of yourself and not this waste of space male.

Answer 10

To be honest with you if your bofriend dont beleive you he aint worth the hassel. How di you find out you misscarried you must have seen a dr if so take your boyfriend to see them they would be able to confirm it for you. You have to give your dr permission to give out your personal business. The worst thing you could do is show your boy friend someone elses test because that just starts a spiral of lies and your boy friend will leave you anyway. Dont you realise also that if your boyfriend knows your online name and uses this facillity that he will catch you out anyway.

Dont lie to him to keep him it doesnt work.

Good Luck anyway . If he loves you he should trust you and believe you ! ! !