there's this guy who i've liked forever, i can never get him out of my head, he is amazing....anyway, i never though he liked me, until the other day he kissed me, with his tongue half way down my throat...LOL....but thing is he's asked me to go out with him....but it's really weird, i don't want to...but still i really really really really like him....i don't get it, why don't i? i've never had a bf before. what do i do? what do i say!!!? if i say no to him then he'll think i don't like him...ug....
by the way, he's 17.
2007-01-19 03:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
mohvictor....i asked this this morning. peh
2007-01-19 03:56:18 · update #1
why don't you wanna go out with him, can you make it like a group so its not just you and him alone?
2007-01-19 03:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre just scared because you have never had a boyfreind before. You dont want to look silly or do the wrong thing. Dont worry so much about it chances are he is just as scared of doing the wrong thing as you. Date him but take it slow. Honestly there isnt too much difference between dating and being freinds. You still talk to each other the same way and hang out and ejoy the others company. theres just the added bonus of making out...enjoy it have fun and relax. Having a boyfriend is great.
2007-01-19 03:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just nervous about your 1st date & what will be expected of you.
Just remember you have the right to say NO to anything you don't want to do. If you have known this guy a while I would think he knows you well enough to know how to treat you. Give it a try sweety, you have to date at some point why not now with someone your crazy about? If you turn him down he may think u don't care & have to move on . And that will really hurt you, you could be losing someone very special.
2007-01-19 03:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you ask this question a few days ago? If you didn't like the answers then what's going to change now, you will not allow this problem to go away and are only magnifying it by having it consume you so much, get out from behind the computer and start interacting with other human beings, go get a job, do anything to take up your free time to occupy your immature mind
2007-01-19 03:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's your nerves, sorta like butterflies in yours tomach. But why not go out with him to a public place then after tell him to take you home. Just take it slow and it will be allright. But also if your not too sure about going out with him and you still like him just talk to him about how you feel. HE might surprise you and enjoy your company anyway. But think beofre you do anything that will make you feel sorry later.
2007-01-19 03:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times we are not interested once the chase is over. If you are not ready to have a bf, you don't have to have one. Just let him know that, you would rather be friends.
2007-01-19 03:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally fine. Listen to yourself. Maybe you don't know him enough. I would stick with being friends and just get to know him. And give him the chance to let him get to you know in return. Don't force yourself to do something that you don't want to do.
2007-01-19 03:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by iwuvmyhubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out more about him. look up his past girlfriends. see what they think about him. once you see how he treats others, then you should make a decision. If he treats his girlfriends nicely, then you should go out with him, but if he just wants to have sex, then don't do it.
2007-01-19 03:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by drogo_brandebuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him but that dont mean you got to sleep with him tell him slow down and if he respects you he will and if not then hes not worth haveing
2007-01-19 03:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be various reasons. your afraid, of where it will end up. your afraid you heart might get broke. your afraid he may just be after you for a piece. you may be afraid of what will happen. could be any and many reasons.
2007-01-19 03:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋