I had been seeing this lad i liked alot for a while on and off, he has a girlfriend now but recently hes been txtin me saying he still has feelings for me and that he wants to "do things with me" im only 15 and although i act mature for my age according to some ppl i dont feel like im ready yet. When he asks me to do somethings to him and i say no, he becomes annoyed with me and ignores me, he txt me a couple of days ago tellin me to leave him alone...so im so confused cos one min he wants to be with me and then next he doesn't..hes 17..please help xx
2007-01-19 03:42:40 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's just trying to use you for sex and sexual things.
Stay away from him and tell him to get a life
2007-01-19 03:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Homer Baby 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You would be better if you just forgot him. He sounds like he does not really have true feelings for you, he might like you but not in quite the right way. You should just concentrate on having fun and doing well at school. There are lots of really great boys out there and you will meet a fantastic guy in a few years and can have a lot of fun with him instead.
Don't ever do anything you don't 100% feel sure about, because some things are really special if you do them well and with someone great and it is a shame to waste them with someone who is not totally special to you.
From what you have said you seem really strong and clever so I know you can make the right choices if you remeber that it is always YOUR choice. Have a great day!
2007-01-19 03:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sofie, i really admire you for not giving in to this boy, who can't be all that nice when he's putting pressure on you. Do yourself a favor and finish with him. Show him how strong you can be. You don't need friends like him. Keep your self respect and everything else, until you decide you're ready for a proper relationship. Meanwhile, you've got a whole life ahead of you. Don't let anyone tell you what to do, if you aren't sure. Good luck X
2007-01-19 03:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a couple of years older than my daughter, and you will know when you are ready no matter how 'mature' you are or look. At 17, he still has a lot of growing up to do. But do you want your first experience to be someone making you sloppy seconds! He has a girlfriend, how would you feel if it was your boyfriend? He does not seem to have feelings for either of you does he? Just a 'quickie' to tell the lads about, you deserve more than that, and so does his girlfriend. Ditch his number, tell him to leave YOU alone!!
2007-01-19 03:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything with this boy because once you do you will not see him again and you will feel used he has no feelings for you and if he will cheat on his girlfriend what makes you think he will still be around after you give into him you'll know when the time is right wait for it
2007-01-19 08:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem better off staying away from him. if he is cheating ( even talking dirty to you) on his gf, then he doesn't care about his partners feelings. If you got close to him again, don't you think he'll do the same to you? Also, NEVER EVER do something you don't feel comfortable with just cause your bf, asks. I mean when you get older and enter a real relationship, that's different, but for now stay away from this guy.
2007-01-19 03:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Pichka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are far too good for this guy, just leave him well alone if he has a girlfriend, you don't want to play with fire especially with this dude.
It sounds as though he is just using you- as his bit on the side, and you should have more self-respect than that. If he is still asking you to help pleasure him, then suggest he goes back to his girl for that. and by the sounds of it, he doesn't take rejection very well, guys tend to shift the blame on us gals when they can't handle it, so be very careful
2007-01-19 03:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by jaydeflex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you're old enough to have your own mind and know what you want in life as of right now. You've done the right thing but you could have done it with a little more tact.
You need to tell him you aren't ready for that kind of thing. If he has a problem with that than you need to do more searching for someone that isn't so much looking for just sex.
2007-01-19 03:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
officially if you do anything with him he could get locked up he would be called a pedophile.
if he loves you he will wait until you are ready if i loved someone it would take alot for them to annoy me so i think this "man" is nasty why don't you tell him you want to ask another mans opinion i.e a brother and i bet you he runs a million miles.
i can't say it enough go find your self a nice boy someone who has some morals.
i know you probably believe you love this waste of space but find a better guy, run run RUN.....
2007-01-19 03:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by london2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really had feelings for you, he wouldnt get annoyed with you saying NO. He is out for what he can get, that much is obvious. You are underaage for a start. Ignore his txts or change your number. Dont be drawn in by him, because once he has 'done things', you wont see him again, thats for sure.
2007-01-19 03:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
youshould get a real boyfriend who would be willing to treat you proprerly and wait as long as you need.
get rid of this guy, someone better will come along.
like you said, your only 15.
never feel pressured, at any age.
2007-01-19 04:42:41 · answer #11 · answered by lj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋