especially if she is pregnant
2007-01-19 03:36:43 · 32 answers · asked by Andre 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, the gifts, Romance, Cruise, nice resturants, and/or simply
saying I love you and big hug make a woman falls more in love with you.
2007-01-19 03:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People will think I am strange, but I think, yes. When I was pregnant with my three children I felt the closest with my husband, that I have our entire marriage. Even for a while after the baby was born. While I was pregnant my husband was attentive and was very understanding and wanted to be involved every step of the way. Also, something about a lifegrowing inside of you that the two of you share seems to bond you. After the child is born watching my husband play with the children, just makes me smile and remember why I love him so much. I hope you experience the same kind of contentment. Also, I forgot to mention sex was great while I was pregnant. It was some of the best sex. My husband agrees. My husband finds pregnant women sexy. I also think most men do. Although some wont admit it. A few are repulsed but I think that that is only a FEW.
2007-01-19 03:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. You can't help but love the person who gave you the miracle inside you. On the other hand, raging horomones play havoc with a woman's emotions. Husbands tend to feel the affects of this just as much as women. After having a baby, their is a lot of pressure on a marriage. While it draws you closer, it also puts a lot of strain on your relationship. That's why you really need to have a good relationship before the baby comes.
2007-01-19 03:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why divorce him now? You told him a long time ago (by the very act of taking him back after he first started cheating) that it was alright to have extra marital affairs. He lost all respect for you and the marriage at that point. You became insignificant in his life. The problem is not him...it's you. How broken do you have to be to allow a man to disrespect you in such a profound way and still stay with him? Social involvements? Outside appearances? What hogwash. You think your friends and neighbors don't know he is cheating on you? They are laughing at you and pitying you at every turn. How about you valuing yourself some more and deciding not to be a doormat.
2016-03-29 04:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more in love? maybe- thats pretty subjective. but there are different types of love, and i think that the nature of a couples love changes when a baby is born. some see it as the romance being gone, hence love has ended. i don't think thats true. if its a solid relationship, the falling in love-romance thing is easy. when a baby and other responsibilities come along the nature of that solid love has changed- you are building on the foundation you started, but the love has not ended. don't make the mistake of misreading the change in your relationship. the romance will return when the time is right.
2007-01-19 03:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by shar71vette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i were really close when i was pregnant he thought i looked really cute and liked to really cater to me. Now that we have my daughter we don't have all the time in the world for each other, but when he is playing with her and cuddling her i realize how much i love him, and he works really hard so i am able to be a stay at home mom.
2007-01-19 06:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always loved my husband but my pregnancy made us closer. And as soon as my baby came out and I saw him holding him I realized that now I love him even more. It's hard to explain but the love has to already be there. Sometimes baby's just make you realize how much love you have for him.
2007-01-19 03:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes them fall more in love. They might get more attached, but every female handles pregnancy differently. Some don't want to be bothered by the husband. It just depends on that woman's hormones.
2007-01-19 03:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think if you have a strong marriage from the beginning, it can bring you closer, but if you are having a baby to try to repair a marriage, it will back fire. Babies are alot of work. My husband and I are pretty tight, but i dont think having a baby made me love him anymore than i already do...it just kind of bonded us together for a while when we became a family instead of the two of us
2007-01-19 03:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jelly Beanz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, there are times when first got pregnant when i felt more in love with him then ever before and i still feel that way most of the time, until he comes around then he drives me nuts. he makes me want to hurt him and all he has to do sometimes is say Hi. It just depends on the hormone each day.
2007-01-19 03:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think having a baby can either bring you closer together or make you not stand each other. I think it just depends on the situation. Me and my husband were brought up differently so one of the main thing we ever fight about is the discipline of our child. We disagree so much that sometimes he drives me crazy and I probably drive him crazy. I still love him but having a child didn't necesarily bring us closer together.
2007-01-19 03:58:04 · answer #11 · answered by TexasGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋