He wants to be friends but also wants to still have relations as we are a couple. What should I do? We broke up this years after a two year relationship.
2007-01-19 03:35:44 · 11 answers · asked by Never-mizz-judged 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's hard after a relationship to change feelings to just friends; sometimes it;s even impossible.
I think your best bet it to stay as just friends, without the relations as if you are a couple. It makes it seem like he just wants the attention, without the title.
After waiting some time, and seeing how things work out, and you still feel you have feelings for each other, then go from there.
2007-01-19 03:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate_acolytes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By all means remain friends, if it works for both of you.
It probably is best to keep it as a friendship, as it is usually never the same if you return to an old relationship. Having said that, it could work; just take it day by day and see how things develop. I am sure neither of you wants to get hurt, so don't rush into anything. Take it easy.
I wish you all the best for the future, whether in this relationship or another.
2007-01-19 03:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by richard555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regressing into a relationship like that is never a good idea. If you do it, you will always think in the back of your mind that you may get back together and from the sound of it he doesn't want a relationship just sex. Also it could be his way of keeping you from moving on. He knows that you will probably not sleep with other guys if you are still sleeping with him - he gets to date other girls and know that you are not dating other guys at the same time.
Good luck.
2007-01-19 03:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tinydancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's taking advantage of you. He wants his cake and to eat it too. I really believe that two people can't be friends as long as there are any feelings still there. Separate for a few months (at least) and wait until you are both healed from the relationship. Perhaps then you could still have a friendship.
2007-01-19 03:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself invisible to him, just for an undisclosed amount of time i.e when YOU are ready. Get rid of him hun, he cant have his cake and eat it.
2007-01-19 03:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by The Sooz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean sweat pea...
it's okay, most woman/men find it al lil hard to be friends w/ an ex....i couldn't do it!...it was wired!
you guys arent friends your lovers!
some guys/girls say lets "be friends" a.k.a so we can still have sex!
you understand!!?!?
2007-01-19 03:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by sexii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Angie, don't be his friend (nor his enemy) if you don't feel comfortable with it, just walk away and don't encourage his phone calls or his friendship.
2007-01-19 03:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why did you guys break up? Does he wanna be with you and other girls too? No way.
2007-01-19 03:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop letting him use you for sex. As long as you let him do that to you, he will continue to do it.
2007-01-19 03:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants sex
get rid of him
2007-01-19 03:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋