I have been drug free and getting my life back together and going back to school and he is trying to get full custody. I live with my parents and there is no reason why my parents and I cant have the baby on some holidays and weekends. What do i need to do?
2007-01-19 03:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by Bootylicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go to the family court in your town and get a legal aid also ask for visitations and he would get serve to go to court and then you would see a judge and the process would take from there is long and sometimes not worth try talking to him and see what can be done between you two****
2007-01-19 03:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court and or if your having money problems, then wait till he takes you to court for full custody and if you are going to let him have the baby. Then agree under certain conditions, that you can have the baby on the weekends and holidays.
2007-01-19 03:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to petition the court for visitation rights... you will be given a court date where you can state your case and show proof of your sobriety. Even though you are a recovered addict, you should still be attending outpatient rehab and/or a support group. If you are not, they may hesitate giving you visitation rights in fear of relapse. Also, you should show that you are working a steady job and saving money. Your have been absent from your child's life for a year so keep in mind it will be an adjustment for him/her. Good Luck!
2007-01-19 03:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact is that no count number how sturdy your intentions are there is little if some thing you may do to help him. i'm a recuperating alcohollc. and besides the undeniable fact that i'm no longer a drug addict the restoration procedure is a lot a similar. the in reality ingredient you could quite to is to no longer enable him. He must have the favor to provide up on his own. even as that takes position he can likely get better. yet, you should no longer deprive your self of a sturdy existence for his sake. after I say this, i do no longer mean you should throw him to the dogs and assure his failure, yet you quite no longer do some thing to enable his drug use. If it ability no longer seeing him, it truly is what it ability...it truly is a demanding highway, and he absolutelty has no idea what result it truly is having on you or him or others. he's the in reality one which could hunt down help, and he gained't do it till he's waiting. you could tell him what help is obtainable, yet back, it quite does no longer count number, he will in reality get help even as he's waiting... i understand this can sound harsh besides the undeniable fact that it truly is the reality. I actually were sober for 5 years, yet understand you will be able to do it yet me. The extra human beings hounded me the added I drank..His challenge isn't a lot distinct. obviously, he's grateful that you got here back, yet that in reality provides him temorary alleviation and the sensation issues are ok back. yet, reality is except he receives help he won't be able to attempt this. He won't be able to do it on my own, and also you don't be able to help him.
2016-11-25 20:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by kenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court to get visitation/full custody. Fight for your son.
2007-01-19 03:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Petition the court for visitation...if you truly have cleaned up your life the judge will likely grant you some type of visitation rights.
2007-01-19 03:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some things just go with the territory.
Noone said it was going to be easy.
the light at the end of the tunnel depends on how much you are prepared to invest in your own rehabilitation.
2007-01-23 02:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your a s s an attorney and quick
2007-01-19 04:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get proper legal adivce
2007-01-19 03:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer
bring proof that you are sober
2007-01-19 03:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋