My sister is a bad person, she makes me feel guilty for things that I don't do and always makes me feel like crap. How do I keep her out of my life and my space but keep her in my life for the sake of my 10month old nephew. Please help me!!!!
2007-01-19 03:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her to say out of your personal business with no offense
2007-01-19 03:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your sister... Your sister says those things because she loves you and she cares about you. If she didn't she wouldn't waste her breath. If you don't' agree with her, then don't let her get inside your life. dont tell her details about your life. But talk to her about things that won't bring on an argument. LIke your nephew for example.
2007-01-19 11:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by iwuvmyhubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest being real with her. Use your "feeling" words (yeah, corny but it works with mean people). Tell her that when she says things like xxx (use specific examples) it makes you feel hurt, frustrated, bad about yourself, etc. Then tell her what you want. "I need you to think about what it is you say to me, I need you to stop telling me what to do, etc. because I want to be in my nephew's life." Mean people respond pretty well to directness and specifics. Good luck!
2007-01-19 11:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have 2 sis`s and 2 half sis`s and we do not get along 2 but they always well b there for me we r not very close hs sis`s but i will always b there for them even if they r not there for me but i do very much love for them and care alot for them . i think the best think for u and her sis is 2 sit down were there is no 1 2 bother u and have a heart 2 heart about u r feelin and tell her how u feelin
2007-01-19 11:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by happyduck1987@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I do to my sister who is the same way...intervals. Or, if, she lets you take the baby out for awhile, you can give her a "break" and spend some quality 'uncle time'.
2007-01-19 11:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how she makes you feel, ask her why she does this and tell her if she can't stop making you feel bad then you don't want to see her till she can treat you better.
2007-01-19 11:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋