i am 39 and have been through 9 boyfriends. Do you think I will ever marry? I was engaged twice, almost a 3rd time. end things always before that magical moment. I also lost a baby and I want kids so bad. what do you all think?
2007-01-19 03:31:53 · 14 answers · asked by ttc #1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all so far who have responded. I am ready to settle down and be married but I have accepted my life and live each and every day to the fullest. I am currently dating a wonderful guy. thank you. Who knows by 4 or 5 months I could be telling you all that I a being married.
2007-01-19 04:56:48 · update #1
you will, just stop stressing yourself out so much, you need to enjoy life and not worry about when you get married, live and recognize every day for what it is, because life is passing by and you are so concerned with when you will get married that you are not noticing just how fast its going. You will meet the right one for you when you least expect it!
2007-01-19 03:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we first must make ourselves lovable, if we look for love we won't be able to find it, but when we nurture others without concern of finding a reward, than we will have become lovable, and may have an easier time of getting what we want. sometimes we may have to lower our expectations, not mean u have to settle for a looser but just lower it some. we can't be too dependent on someone either, pursuing this isn't about being right or wrong, it's about transformation about growth. sometimes we pass by the guy who isn't as handsome, for the one who is drop dead beautiful, only to be let down later on. have to look inside yourself and ask why you didn't marry one of these nine. did u do the rejecting or did they, if they did u will need to look inside and be honest with yourself and find out what is wrong.
2007-01-19 03:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on other things in your life, what will be will be. We are all on a path of things to come...............what you are looking for is directly related to what you do in your life, one connects to the other: Actions and Reactions
Just keep going, being unmarried and without kids is not a bad thing. I myself spent many years alone, purposely (tired of the bs) and offered an option of adopting and raising a child and getting a nanny to cook and clean and all that good stuff..........now that's living. But, while I was planning that I met someone unexpectedly and things are great and she has children. So I guess it all worked out (see above statement again) :) happy life to all
2007-01-19 03:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look closely at those 9 boyfriends. Why didn't they work out? What do they have in common? Why did your engagements end?
You might be surprised to find the same patterns appearing over and over. Same kind of guys, same routines, same old s***. You have a part in this - figure out what it is, and resolve to do something about it.
2007-01-19 03:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not with that attitude young lady. Perk up and enjoy life, then somebody will see the real you and the magic will happen. Stop wasting your life waiting, you know what they say about a watched kettle never boils.
2007-01-19 03:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, you have been though alot, but never give up. Just make sure after ever break up you give yourself time, by this I mean take care of your needs and always have a support system, girlfriends that you can talk too. don't worry about the future, the future will take care of itself.
2007-01-19 03:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you'll get married some day, make sure your next boyfriend is compatible to you.
2007-01-19 03:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us know the future, but I am betting, maybe you should try a good match making site.
2007-01-19 03:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have kids without getting married
2007-01-19 03:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time
2007-01-19 03:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋