called an escort service and had a hooker come to his room? If he told you about it (because he was ashamed), what would your reaction be?
2007-01-19 03:31:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would ask him How many other trips did you do the same thing? Can I trust you anymore? Some questions need to be answered before I would stay with someone like that.
2007-01-19 05:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he obviously cannot be trusted to have a job that is away from home. I actually took my husband to a strip club when we were first married because he'de never been before, nor been intimate with any other woman other than me, and he had a HORRIBLE time. He thought it was so degrading to women and I actually enjoyed it more than he did. With that said, there are men out there that do not enjoy that sort of thing. Since you are with one that does, you have the option of looking the other way ( I bet he will never stop going. ) Or, you can do like that other person posted and get a job and put the child in daycare and ignore his requests for being a stay at home mom. If he doesn't respect you, why should you bow down and respect him? Let him see how it it feels. Good luck.
2016-03-29 04:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would be more angry about a hooker than some girl he met at a bar or an affair even. You can rationalize the other situations by saying sometimes its hard for a man to turn down whats right in his face. But calling a n escort? he actively sought to break his marraige vow. he should be ashamed and who knows if he has endangered you by bringing a disease into the house? To me a hooker is the worst betrayal. I dont think i could forgive so that means it would be over for me
2007-01-19 03:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney C 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If he told you about it because he was ashamed and remorseful, then you have to think about the vow you took when you married him, or you could just default and be like most people today and just get divorced. But if you're a bigger person inside, you should really know how your husband feels and think about forgiveness. If he told you about it because of guilt and shame, then he's not really divorce material at this point.
2007-01-19 03:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
His "shame" just bought him a one way ticket to divorce court!
It's one thing to cheat on a spouse with someone you care about, but a HOOKER? He couldn't have any less respect for you if he tried!
2007-01-19 03:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What a freakin' moron...why would you admit that to your partner? That goes in the category of things that you go to the grave with...
Divorce him...he deserves what he gets for being such an idiot by telling you...after making one horrible decision, he followed it up with another!!!
2007-01-19 03:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would be disgusted and my next move would be to file for divorce. I wouldn't want him back in the house and he definitely could not ever touch me again.
2007-01-19 03:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Tell him to grow up, and find a new husband. He is a child and needs to be treated like one.
2007-01-19 03:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'd tell him to stay where he's at, he's not allowed in my house. I'd divorce him and he'd find out I'm not lying.
2007-01-19 03:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thankful that he had the balls to tell you. His guilt speaks volumes about how he feels about you.
2007-01-19 03:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Add Man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋