i think about sex right but i affaird to have sex agian....wat should i do?

Question

the reason y i'm affraid to have sex agian is becuase i'm affriad that i wont feel no pressure and i might get pregnant...but what kiils me i think about it aolt wat should i do

Answer 1

its easy...dont have sex! jsut play it yourself darling!

Answer 2

You have many choices. Invest most of your sexual time into oral or the other end if you know what I mean. Make sure he is playing it safe (condom) and you can be just as safe (the pill).

I'm not sure what you meant by you're afraid that you won't feel pressure. Are you talking physical pressure or mental pressure?

From the way it sounds, you're are just beyond being a virgin or in other words, you've had sex one, maybe two times. It so very wise to be concerned over getting pregnant but there are precautions that can be taken.

Don't worry, if it's done right there's only fun and pleasure left.

Answer 3

First off, how old are you? It sounds like you're probably pretty young if you are this afraid. This amount of anxiety alone should tell you you're probably just not ready to handle a sexual relationship. And that's fine! STDs and pregnancy are very real possibilities so they're good things to worry about. Talk to someone about your fears (like maybe a ob/gyn or someone at Planned Parenthood or even your mom), and in the meantime, don't do anything you don't feel 100% ready for and comfortable with. And just because you won't be having sex doesn't mean you can't do--ahem--things to make yourself happy.

Answer 4

If you are too worried that you will get pregnant and feel no pleasure than you are not ready. Having sex means you will be alright with the consequences. Pregnancy and no pleasure are not good reasons. I would think a better one would be getting an STD. Protect yourself if you do have sex. Good luck

Answer 5

Don't have sex!!!! Even with birth control, I have a feeling you're still going to be worried. Sex is supposed to be fun and to allow you to be as close as possible to your partner. You aren't supposed to feel scared or uncomfortable or unhappy. There is no reason that you HAVE to have sex. And if your partner can't accept that...your partner isn't the right person for you!!!

Answer 6

The best advice i can give you, is save sex for someone special. Sex is something that shouldn't be taken advantage of. I think now a days people lost the meaning and specialness of sex.

Answer 7

Then don't do it genius! Geez-you are practically playing with fire-so unless you wanna worry about getting knocked up-wait until you are ready and mature......because of this, tomorrow for you a surprise might come-and a expensive one too.

Answer 8

You need to find a man that is sensitive to your needs and make sure he is wearing a reliable condom. Also, use of a birth control pill would be ideal.

Answer 9

unsure the place 'Monk' intercourse suits in right here, yet that's the single for me. And that's sleepy, indignant, passionate, moist, tricky, lazy, sunday or exposive...... .Monk intercourse is mostly a marvel and continuously astounding ;o)

Answer 10

well, based on your spelling and improper sentances, I'd say you are probably too young to be having sex anyway.

If you think about it all the time, and your horny, try pleasing yourself!

Answer 11

find the most gentle person you can

then go really slow, take a few years if you need that long

use condoms if you get that far that you would need them