I'm really embarrased about this but every time I have sex I dont know if I come or not. I really need your help with figuring this out. Everytime I have sex he asks if I came I lie and say yes when I really dont know. :(
2007-01-19 03:17:49 · 14 answers · asked by y02 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
When you do, you WILL KNOW!;
2007-01-19 03:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is best if you get on top cause you can move yourself just right so that yo can find that big O spot! But like everyone is saying you'll know when you do!! Good luck! Oh yeah and try to google it or go to the book store and kick back in a comfy chair! I am sure you are not the only one....Having the big O is something you MUST do before you die!!!
2007-01-19 11:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by gr33n_ey.d_goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young. Like everyone else said...when you have one you will know it. The young boy must not be puttin' in work like he should...maybe you should try this....have him stick the tip of his tongue on your clit and work it fast and then slow. Repeat this step over and over and over again. Then if he moves his tongue in a circular motion...around and around...this should make you feel like electricity is passing thru your body at a high voltage. You'll know when you climax, because it will be soo intense, that you won't be able to stand it. YOu'll be soo sensitive down there, that you'll be begging him to stop.
2007-01-19 11:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try getting a vibrator or some other kind of toy that you can use while you're having sex with him. It will definately help both of you, and you can take turns holding it! ha ha . Anyway, the only downside is that it might help him faster than it will help you.
2007-01-20 13:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by A-Bomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont know if u have had one,u havent had one.its like sneezing-u definately know if u have just sneezed or not.it is that apparent.dont worry,keep trying.u'll know.ps-get some books from the library or bookstore,and go over them with ur boyfriend.try some of the things that will help.
2007-01-19 11:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by kyra k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you haven't had one yet. There will be no doubt it your mind when you do. Don't be discouraged. It's more difficult for some women to have an orgasm than others, but you will.
2007-01-19 11:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you dont know if you are having an orgasm or not, then you are not having one.
2007-01-19 12:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know if you had an orgasm. It is very hard not to notice.
2007-01-19 11:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't having one then. You probably need more clit stimulation. Trust me you'll know when you get one, it's like a bolt of electricity through your body.
2007-01-19 11:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anyone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, when you have one you will know!! Its the greatest feeling you will ever experience.
2007-01-19 11:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jenns705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you haven't had an orgasm. When you have one.....you will KNOW.
2007-01-19 11:21:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋