Serious question. Thanks!
2007-01-19 03:13:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hahaha, these answers are interesting....no I am not pregnant, sex is amazing and I do not want to compromise it, that is why I am asking. I think I may have a C-section when the time comes...really not looking forward to giving birth. THanks!
2007-01-19 03:47:38 · update #1
When you say worse it implies that it was bad to begin with.
2007-01-19 03:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different and it CAN be a physical change, but more often it is an emotional or psychological one.
Physically:
Vaginal births - In some cases it can become a little uncomfortable in the beginning, but that usually goes away. With regard to the "looseness" of the vaginal muscles, exercising them (Kegel) has proven effective.
C-Section births - There's really no physical change to the vagina with these births.
Emotionally and psychologically:
Enjoy motherhood...ALL of the ups AND downs. If you view motherhood as a burden, then the very thing that caused motherhood...sexual intercourse, will lose its appeal. Sex won't be as enjoyable anymore and may even become uncomfortable. Make sure you take SOME time to pamper yourself...at times when the baby's napping, take that much needed nap yourself or that nice relaxing warm bubble bath; do your nails; work-out; etc., etc. ... whatever it is that gives you some YOU time and makes you feel good inside. All of this contributes to your emotional and psychological health AND your self-esteem.
2007-01-19 03:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by K H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't get worse, and for some women, they think it is better.
You will naturally be a little "looser" vaginally, since it has recently been stretched by the baby passing through the birth canal. That may help your partner's ability to last longer.
Also, many women pratice kegal excercises after birth, to help strengthen their PC muscle. They do this because they have problems with bladder control. (My wife still sometimes pees when she sneezes, and it's been 8 months.) Those exercises also tighting the vagina up, and can be used to give a man more pleasure.
So, look on the bright side. Sex is still 90% mental for many people. If they love you and are really into you, it will all work just fine.
2007-01-19 03:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Garylian 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your body. For me sex hurts from about 6 mos pregnant on. Then after the doctor clears you to have sex after having a baby it hurts the first two or three times. Or is... uncomfortable. It gets better as your body recovers. If you find it too uncomfortable or painful there are other ways to enjoy each other. Sometimes it's fun to explore those as well :) All in all pretty much everything eventually goes back to normal.
2007-01-19 03:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me, sex was horrific the first three or four times after our baby because I hurt so badly, but it got better after that. The only thing I found that really made it not as good as before was being distracted by hearing the baby! The minute I heard her sigh, whimper, or fuss a bit in the next room, I just wasn't in to it anymore. (I got over that, though.)
2007-01-19 05:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by jeffs_wife_ali _&_adams_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The woman's body goes back to normal after birthing a baby. It's a natural thing......and an amazing works of nature!
2007-01-19 03:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mz Bee 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why does the BIble say to savour your husband or spouse? Why replaced into the song of Solamon written (song of Songs)? Why does the Bible say the marriage mattress is undefiled? Why does the Bible say to no longer disclaim one yet another? The Bible says those issues using fact in a marriage intercourse is to be enjoyed! the full intercourse for little ones purely got here from the OT some guy spilling his seed (masterbating) while he'd been COMMANDED to offer a toddler along with his spouse. It replaced into for a spefic difficulty using fact he wasn't doing his spouse & he replaced into to offer a toddler w/her. intercourse is important 4 bonding human beings 2 one yet another in a marriage. examine your BIble! BTW no the place in God's be conscious does it say oral intercourse is incorrect!
2016-10-31 12:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think it went downhill after having my baby. Not especially for the fysical change only, it's the combination of all.
Your body really needs to recover, you are tired of waking up for the baby, it might be that your partner (the good he might be) sees you different, the lack of privacy..
And I got stitches so that changed how I feel myself too. But I got used to the mini-mini scarf.
But don't worry, all that is temporal. And unless major problems, everything under the belt gets back normal as before. (Don't let me start about breasts... that's worse...)
2007-01-19 03:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by belgium 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK - first - are you saying it was bad before you got pregnant and if so have you discussed this with your gynocologist - she needs to fix that as sex should be a wonderful experience at all times - even for some - when pregnant. Call her today. It is important to your health.
2007-01-19 03:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard it hurts a lot like thew 1st time ever having sex! I think a lot of girls_women get scared the 1st time after having a baby!
2007-01-19 03:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by baby_mamma123456789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable in your skin, then the sex will be great! If your not, then it will affect your performance. The best thing to do, is take care of yourself, and love yourself and your body for what it's been through and in turn if you have a loving partner, they too should do the same.
2007-01-19 03:18:08 · answer #11 · answered by Trina A 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋