Ok well I'm a lesbian (if you didn't know that already hee hee) and anyways I'm 15 years old and I've only really ever dated one girl in my entire life. We broke up in November after 5 months. Anyways, I have really bad dating skills! There's this one girl who I've kind of had a crush on for a while... but I always figured she was straight! And apparently, until a little while ago so did she...then a few days ago she comes up to me and tells me "I'm kind of questioning my sexuality..." and I'm like WOW....I'm kind of having internal spaz attacks now, wondering what to do.She's really cute and funny and nice, but I don't want to scare her or anything... what should I do?!?!?!?
2007-01-19 03:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Talk to her. Did she say that shes questioning her sexuality to you, because she knows that you're a lesbian? If so you're in luck, because its all the more easier to talk to her.
Don't make it like a date at first. Genuinely help her to figure herself out. Then say that you are really interested and ask if she's interested in taking your relationship to a higher level. Just don't get all worried and nervous.
Be cool and enjoy life. If she's not the one, there are other women out there after all. Best of luck!
2007-01-19 07:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get scared..be cool about it and be YOURSELF GIRL....GOOD 4 U... :)) be nice to her...smile a lot...and if you get to date her... be happy about it...if u get to be gfs!!! dating skills? about what??? so u r saying that u don't know what to do when you get to a date.... say jokes... be cool, calm...patience... gentle.... look into her eyes... deeply...listen to her very carefully so she wouldn't get mad if she asks you something well be there with her not on another planet... and all these things well it's not just for a date!!! they are in a relationship 2...
hope this helped ...that's what i can say 4 now.... bu bye
respect 4 LGBT!!!
2007-01-19 06:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Tell her if shes ever cusrius or wants to experiment to call you
2007-01-19 03:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about asking her to share a cup of coffee with you somewhere?
2007-01-19 03:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kedar 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go for a drink somewhere and talk.
2007-01-20 04:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake ask her out!
2007-01-19 03:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋