he is married but we have been seeing each other for about a year and a half, he says he is in love w me but can't seem to leave his wife and they have been together for 13years.
2007-01-19 03:00:57 · 22 answers · asked by marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ur all so rite but they r not happy they fight every day she goes to work and never does anithing around the house or even cooks for her kid not even on her day of he has to come home fr work to do everything that is to b done around the house and even dinner, thats y they fight a lot, he only has one 7 year doughter together and he is the one that takes care of her, all she does is b on the cump talkind to every guy that she meets, so he doesnt leave her is because of his little girl.....
2007-01-19 03:32:58 · update #1
He probably doesn't know who to choose. Maybe he is in love with both of you and can't bring himself to dump either one or you.
2007-01-19 03:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by amddma123 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well babygirl either he's lying, he's confused,he have equal love for the both of you or he rather keep things simple. the reason I said either he's lying is because if his feelings is as strong as he say they are he would leave her,the reason I said either he's confused is because sometimes you have more than one thing and you can't choose just one because you don't know what the end result will be,the reason I said either he ahve equal love for you is because in relationships most of the time what one is not doing the other is and what the other isn't doing the other is, and the reason i said either he rather keep things simple is because in marriage you go through alot more changes than you do in a normal boyfriend girlfriend situation so maybe well I know he don't want to go through those things or even experience them all over again. I know because I'm young and married and it's hard!!!
2007-01-19 11:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dimin B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marie, Marie, Marie. You are not the first women to go through this and you won't be the last. The odds of a married man leaving his wife is slim to none.
In the event that he does leave his wife of 13 years for you, he will cheat on you too. Because the odds of a cheater who never cheats again are running the same. Sorry sweetie. Please move on to someone who will put you first. Don't waste any more years being second.
2007-01-19 11:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Honey Bee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm, here's a tip....QUIT DEGRADING YOURSELF TO BE HIS MISTRESS!!!!! You are both in the wrong for doing what you are doing. Find a man who is not married or involved. This guy is not going to leave his wife for you and he does not love you. I'm so sorry to be so blunt but being that I have a friend in the same situation (and yes I am this brutally honest with her) I hate seeing her waste her life on a pathetic excuse for a man and I hate seeing her continue her relationship with a married man when she also knows it's wrong. Guys like the one you are seeing are dogs who just want the piece on the side. Please stop degrading yourself to that and find a man who will give you his whole heart.
2007-01-19 11:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it isnt as clean cut at you would like to believe. He has invested 13 years with his wife you cannot just say there is NO feelings there. Yes he might love you but he still and will always love her also. I would not have anything to do with him until he leaves his wife and is gone from her for a while. Its just a lot of pain ahead for you and why go thru that? Also by him telling you he loves you that opens your heart and mind to him and that my dear is exactly what he wants. Good luck in whatever you choose.
2007-01-19 11:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want to leave his wife, he has security and "peace" with her, and he has freedom and "piece" with you. Unless you find a way to make him stay with you, even if he does love you or claims to love you, he has the ball and its his court, so you need to get off the bench and play referee. Good Luck and chances of him leaving his wife is slim to none. Yes, it does happen, but on a very low scale.
2007-01-19 11:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a very simple explanation: he tells you he loves you in order to get you to have sex with him. Many men enjoy having sex with more than one woman. He may even believe that he does love you. However, he probably also loves his wife; you don't stay with someone for 13 years if there is no love. Nonetheless, given the circumstances, you seem to be demonstrating very little respect for yourself by sharing a man with another woman.
2007-01-19 11:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He says it so that he will get laid! Grow up and stop messing with other people's husbands. It could come back to bite you one day. He isn't going to leave his wife....and if he did, why would you want him???
I have been blasting the "Singlemom" guy all morning, and you are exactly what he is griping about. I hate it when he is right!
2007-01-19 11:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he gets a thrill out of having a piece of *** on the side. Being naughty by cheating with you turns him on and he doesn't want it to end. He is not looking to replace his wife because he may have children still at home or he loves her more than he does you or he simply likes f**king both of you!
2007-01-19 11:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard of a little thing call a lie? this guy has been seeing you for a year and a half and still has not left his wife umm, maybe he just telling you he love you to get in between your legs. wake up and start smelling the bullshit he's spreading.
2007-01-19 12:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by stanley w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you just dumb, you are just a piece he is getting on the side, he does love his wife and the life they have together. Stop being the other woman and find a man that is available.
2007-01-19 11:20:38 · answer #11 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋