How do you know when another girl is a lesbian?

Question

I want a GF, but it seems hard to tell who is lesbian...and it's not like I'm gonna ask them!

Answer 1

i have found that a lot of lesbian and bisexual girls will drop subtle and not so subtle hints. like for example i was at the tattoo shop the other day and i noticed this girl looking at me.. then her and this guy got on the subject of tongue piercings. she says to the guy 'i got my tongue pierced a year ago' (then proceedes to show him) and he's like 'yeah thats cool, i like girls that have thier tongues peirced' then she says 'i didnt get it pierced for the GUYS'

that off-handed comment was her way of letting me know she was into girls without having to say it straight out. if a girl is into you listen for those type of off handed comments that she might make to you or somebody else within listening distance.

Answer 2

Never assume just cause a girl is looking at you means shes a lesbian since even straight girls look at girls. A lot of times its to see what your wearing, your hairstyle and things like that.
Although most times they look away when you look back but if they keep looking at you then its possible.

But to be honest, you NEVER REALLY know unless you actually ask the girl.
The best way to tell is if you go to a gay/lesbian bar or club. Or look online :-)
I want a GF too but you know, for some people, if you STOP looking, just enjoy what you have right now (family, friends, hobby...etc) .... then the right person will come along when you're not expecting it. :-)

Answer 3

Look for subtle hints, like prolonged eye contact. Or soemtimes she might say "I don't date...." but it sounds like there is more to the sentence... (men) If she seems to flirt with you the way straight girls flirt with guys, she is either a lesbian or open enough about it that she won't be offended by the question.

Answer 4

Of path the very first thing that draws me are her appears. Sometimes Femmes and regularly Boi's simply relies on what their power is. I commonly like females who've pleasant lips and a pleasant smile. They ought to have persona and a pleasant humorousness. And such a lot of all they have to be sensible!

Answer 5

I say you cant, but others think just because someone wears a ball cap or she has short hair then oh my god she must be a lesbian-this is soooooo wrong. People just like to think whatever.

Answer 6

Well you don't know just by looking but if you don't inquire then you'll never know. But there subtle signs that girls give when they are interested you just have to pay attention.

Answer 7

Just IM me

Answer 8

don't ask...don't get.