We have already been separated for a little while, and he knows I am not sure I want to be married. I find it difficult to talk about relationship issues at home, but I don't want to put any of us in an awkward position in public either.
2007-01-19 02:30:02 · 10 answers · asked by aquarius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to hear... I did this in a busy coffee shop, because there are to many distractions in either home and I got to the point and was honest and direct in a better way.
In a park where there is still people around but you can get loud if necessary, I would do it in a coffee shop/cafe, not during peak hours though, more ~ between breakfast/ lunch or after supper-ish. Find a quiter spot away from the traffic of people fixing their coffee or near washroms, Good Luck to you.
2007-01-19 02:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by takethepain2579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about thinking out side of the box and talk about saving the marriage with counseling. But that is radical, who would ever expect to do something like that. Save a marriage, hmmm. Sounds like a lot of work. But, I don't know all of your details.
Other than that: You should have home field advantage since the topic is of your doing. It will allow you to be comfortable and strong. Just open a bottle of wine and relax and work your way into it via other topics. Who knows, your love may rekindle after the bottle and you'll both wake up with a new found love for each other in the morning.
but what do I know about love.
2007-01-19 02:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too many choices. Aside from public all you can do is go to a hotel or the home of a friend or family. I would bite the bullet and discuss it at home.
2007-01-19 02:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a restaurant in a private booth. That way its private yet public in case your spouse tries to kill ya! Good Luck!
2007-01-19 03:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by mzmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent a hotel room for the night. split the cost, share expenses for the food. and talk
2007-01-19 10:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a church its the only best place to talk about serious stuff because its a very neutral place
2007-01-19 02:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just after when he says "will you marry me"
2007-01-19 02:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the park and sit on a bench.....
2007-01-19 02:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Any of us" How many are involved?
2007-01-19 02:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
court, maybe?
2007-01-19 02:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋