in your house and red handed?
2007-01-19 02:20:24 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell her that it is ok, be supportive , ask why and then ask to become involved too
2007-01-19 02:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it won't happen because if there were to be someone at home with me my partner would know about it and most likely have picked the person herself.
It called honesty and communication in a relationship. My partner is bi and likes to invite other ladies for visits. So far with us both there at the same time. But we have talked about this already and either of us can surprise the other as long as we know that while it might start out as 2, when the 3rd gets home they are joining in. Nothing hidden.
2007-01-19 02:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if you caught your wife in the house with another man?
You guys (like this) make me ashamed to be a guy. I'm glad I stick to my self commitments and morals.
Is fixing a marriage or agreeing on a separation that much work that you lazy Aholes have to find another way to f it up more than it is and hurt people along the way.
Lazy lazy lazy.
2007-01-19 02:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha.... wat was your first reaction when you saw your wife? Is this your first time? Do you love her? Why are you hurting her like that? But what has been done cannot be undone. If you still love her, do everything to make her forgive you and never repeat the same f****** mistake again. Do all you can to assure and reassure her over and over again that you will not have an affair again. It will take same time though. If you no feelings for her or whatsoever, just let her go. Don't make her miserable anymore.
2007-01-19 02:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist do they have kids?? how long has it been going on... now if there is no kids and its been going on.. I would say I hope she takes you to the bank and you pay for arealllllllly long time... now if there are kids.. I would say you both need help if this isnt the 1st time then you need to just leave and see how selfish you are to your family and If I were you I would kiss some butt I know. best of luck and I hope this really didnt happen cause to me if you were a real man he wouldnt want to cheat or feel the need and if you didnt want to get caught you would have been smarter about it.. sounds like you wanted out of your marriage... sorry this happen to my sister and it really makes me mad that men would do this to the woman they married and vowed to... and I hope the wife beat the crap out of the woman *L*
2007-01-19 02:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy Yank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not up to you to do anything, its your wife who is going to do the thing. I remember my grandpa asked us what we were going to do if we were all alone with no ammunition and behind us was a cliff and in front a roaring lion, my brother said that whatever was to be done will be done by the lion. If the other woman didn't know about him being married, there might be two women ready to tear him apart.
2007-01-25 10:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have caught my better half with another woman. I didnt blow up, go crazy or any of the other things that I have heard people say they would do, I just got a divorce.
2007-01-24 09:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a wife, and wouldn't catch me wirth another women!
But as a girl, I would tell you that you just try to make it up to her as best as you can. Tell her people make mistakes, and just show you really do care (if you do) or if you fell in love with this other girl, maybe it's time to tell her, that you have found someone else, it may be hard to hear, the truth hurts, but lies hurt more.!
2007-01-19 02:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by All I need is you 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a women i would stomp some other women if i caught her with my husband at my house no telling what would happen my temper would flare and she would be a sorry mess when i got done stomping her *** so this quesstion might not be for me since im a female
2007-01-24 08:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really think my husband hated me to bring another woman in our home, our bed. It would leave me wide open for an extra dose of humiliation.
If I found my husband here in bed, I would no doubt take her clothes and keys and purse and pitch them outside and stand by gracefully as she left. Then I would drag our mattress outside and set it on fire!
2007-01-26 20:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by donny_mollysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband handed over his wallet and keys and walked off into the sunset because he knew I was going for the jugular.
2007-01-19 02:25:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋