y do men have such crazy fetishes? such as brown showers (they eat or smear feces on them) or golden shower(they like urinating on someone or having someone urinate on them). i dont get that? and its ONLY men. what could they have gone through as a child to posesss them to enjoy such a thing?
2007-01-19 01:52:26 · 22 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
so if MEN and WOMEN have these same fetishes (meaning brown and golden showers), my question is y? i heard that it may have lead to something that happened to them as a child for them to enjoy such a thing.
2007-01-19 02:31:04 · update #1
i do hear more so that men having these fetishes than women. i dont argue whatsoever that women having these fetishes also.
2007-01-19 03:49:04 · update #2
these two particular fetishes can ususally be traced to their childhood, they would get a warm sensation when they wet the bed or soiled their nappies... There is a certain pleasure in relieving oneself, also. All this can get confused and associated in later life with a part of their sexual habits - and so the fetish is born.
BTW, don't go thinking that it is just men, or even, specifically, homosexual men that go in for that sort of thing.
2007-01-19 03:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human sexuality is largely subconscious, what gets you off, gets you off. Why are some people straight and others bi or gay? Why do some people like blonde's and others brunettes? Why are some people into BDSM and others not? There is rarely, if ever, a causative factor. The idea that there is such a factor stems from the assumption that everyone is born desiring only vanilla heterosexual activity and that anything else is a form of sickness. If you are sick, then looking for a cause for the disease makes sense. There are still millions of people who claim that no one would be gay if they had been raised properly. I, personally, do not share the fetishes you mention, but my bi-sexuality has been with me as long as I've been aware of sexual feelings, and there was no trauma or abuse that led to it. Asking why someone enjoys what they enjoy is pointless, they just do.
2007-01-19 03:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, both women and men do this, its not my thing but my ex wife used to want to do the golden showers thing both giving and receiving and if you look at some of the less wholesome web sites you will find an awful lot are dedicated to women doing this
2007-01-19 01:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Mmmm i does not say it is sturdy adequate to be a fetish yet i admire sturdy palms and arms. sturdy, masculine, yet narrow, arms are a activate ;). Ooooh and robust hair (dark please). Edit: Ooooh additionally, I accept as true with what Delilah mentioned approximately jawline, sturdy defined jawlines are reeeeally extreme high quality. :)
2016-12-16 08:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and don't really understand most of them either,
but mine are OK.
I can't connect anything to my childhood, but some things turn me on that aren't really main stream.
2007-01-19 01:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You clearly know stuff all about gold/brown/scat.
you think only men like scat done to them?
Google the name Veronica Moser.
the biggest known scat star is a women, debunks your idea totally, doesnt it?
2007-01-19 12:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by ray d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't help you there. I'm a man and I have neither of those fetishes. It would be kind of nice if you wouln't generalize quite so much about men.
2007-01-19 01:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by toff 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
its not only men hun. there are just a LOT of people out there who have fetishes. i think men are usually just more open to say the have them
2007-01-19 01:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Have fetish for guys in and out of used and abused jockstraps.
2007-01-19 10:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My MY What kind of books have you been reading? I suppose those things do happen, but I have not seen them in my 83 years.
2007-01-19 01:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋