Don't worry karma is the best! Whatever you do to someone comes back to you. It will happen, this guy is probably going to have the worst relationship with the fat b**** and you'll find someone that truly knows how to treat you right. Don't waste your life thinking or wondering what's going to happen to them. Focus on you and before you know it, that guy will be begging you back for being too good for him!
Enjoy your life and please do not let a man abuse you, don't ever forgive a man that cheats on you, "once a cheater always a cheater", and once someone leaves you, do not beg for that person back. That person will see that you have been good for them and wasted his opportunity.
Live happy and focus on you!
Good luck!
2007-01-19 01:52:15
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answered by Kiki 2
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Karma is a spiritual belief. I think that all major religions have a belief in this. In Hinduism, it's called Karma. Christianity has a belief in "You reap what you sow." I'm not sure about Islam, but most of society says, "What goes around comes around." The Jewish text (and Christian Old Testament) has a scripture that says, "Vengence is mine, says the Lord." Psychology believes in the concept of "natural consequences." The majority of people on this planet believe in this, even if they don't call it Karma. There is some kind of spiritual justice that works out. The problem is, it can also work against you. If you spend your time yearning for misery to come upon others, then Karma says that misery will come upon you. It works best with forgiveness. You forgive them and let Karma, or God, or life, or whatever it is that you believe in take care of justice. And it may be that their relationship will be the punishment you desire. He could end up working 2 jobs to support her kids while she's off cheating on him, and he has to deal with all these other fathers never allowing him to have peace in his life. That might not be what you want, but those are the natural consequences of the choices he could possibly make. Sometimes Karma comes in just having to live with the consequences of your own decisions.
2007-01-19 09:58:14
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answered by lizardmama 6
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YES, in a way, but not like you think. You are making your own suffering worse by dwelling on this. try to forgive and forget. really. if you forgive you will suffer less.
truly people do not do things for any reason it seems. they are conditioned robots. your ex is just a fool that is compulsive and needs to be oitied. you dodfged a bullet. move on and find a better mate and learn from this lesson.
if Kharma does exist, it must be understood that it can take many lifetimes before it evens things out.
life is cruel and unfair. all we can do is suffer the slings and arrows and control our own thoughts to reduce the pain.
Buddha has an explanation and a plan for all this.
the four noble truths:
1) life is suffering
2) suffering is caused by desire
3) there is a solution
4) eliminate desire
then he offers an 8 fold plan to achieve this. never does he offer revenge or justice as comfort. Only to stop desiring revenge or justice and concentrate on being aware in the here and now.
2007-01-19 09:57:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Karma is what happens when you treat people like you were treated. I believe in it and I was in a situation kind of like yours. My only advice is move on as quickly as possible. One big part of what he has with fatty 4 kids is talking about you. The sooner you remove yourself and take away the person they have in common. The sooner you can watch karma either rip them apart, or live very miserable lives! I believe you get back what you put out into the Universe.
As far as the abuse goes he did you a huge favor leaving! You decide your worth for you and your son! You need to be strong enough now to walk from any abusive situation for your sons sake more than your own. Kids that see Mom get abused will be abusive in there relationships later on! So take a break and decide where you are before you make another bad decision, like the previous seven year choice! Learn from it grow and move on!!!
2007-01-19 10:00:32
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answered by dfgrace22 4
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Listen girl any dude who would up and leave you like that, is not worth thinking about, him nor his fat B. sista if the dude was abusing you in any way there is definitely no need dealing with him. Karma is going to catch up to him when he least expect it,and trust me when she comes she come strong. The funny thing about karma is that she comes in any shape or form,but by then you will be over him living a happy life with your son, And a Man not a little boy like that As$..... Good luck to you and your son wish y'all the best keep your head up and remember don't let a Dude knock you style be true to yourself and love only yourself if you have too later
2007-01-19 09:56:14
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answered by yaya t 6
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Absolutely, what comes around goes around. Whatever seeds you sow, you shall also reap! That is what it states in the bible. You should move on with your life and try to heal. Giving him and her less of your thoughts. You deserve better, forgive and forget and move on. Without forgiveness, you can not and will not begin the healing process. Being bitter only makes one cantankerous. and lonely. It sounds as though they have both actually done you a tremendous favor, they deserve each other. And now you are available for a good loving man to come into your life. Good luck to you and God bless****
2007-01-19 09:53:01
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answered by ? 7
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Yes, I really believe in kharma! A lot of sh.. has came back on me because of the dirt i've done in the past. On the other end, the best thing about it is that you don't even have to get revenge on someone who has done you wrong because they will bring it on themselves. I've heard about people that have done me wrong going through really hard times, especially when I am doing good. So, don't worry about that b*t*h talking crazy to you, she'll get hers too!
2007-01-19 09:52:37
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answered by RedMami23 2
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Yes dear, karma is very real. The other woman is out of the equation, but karma will rear its ugly head against your ex. Just try not to be vindictive, spiteful and mean towards them. I know thats hard, but just do your best to let it go and move on with your life.
2007-01-19 09:51:30
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answered by Anonymous
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kharma is real, what goes around comes around. some peoples kharma comes right away, and some, well, don't for a while. but in the long run it will happen. don't worry and don't try to get revenge yourself, it will only backfire. good luck
2007-01-19 09:52:00
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answered by sexie 3
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Yes
2007-01-19 09:50:05
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answered by Anonymous
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