I'd Like To Do It With Other Couples...
Any Advice?? Ideas??
2007-01-19 01:45:51 · 38 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Watch some porn together with mmf and ffm three somes. Have a discussion. Talk about a swingers lifestyle. See what she's into.
2007-01-19 01:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How stable is your marriage?
There has been several discussions about this and most couples that were into the swinging lifestyle stated that it had ruined their relationship.
Sex is sex. You get the same result at the end, an orgasm. To have someone with you through good times and bad comes few and far between.
If you need to spice up your love life, there are plenty of movies, books, and games available. Save up for a surprise get-away to the Caribbean Islands. Go on a cruise.
2007-01-19 01:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
invite another couple over that is into this kind of lifestyle. Tell your wife your going to the store and let this couple hit on your wife while you are gone. When you come back see what her reaction is.
Or have another couple come over that is into this lifestyle have it set up that when you start to make out with your wife the other couple will do the same, start doing what ever get's her hot and as her eyes are closed motion to the other couple to come sit on the couch with you. Have the other guy start sliding his hands over your wife while his partner does the same to you. see what she does and have fun
2007-01-19 02:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is not comfortable having sex with others, it is wrong to try to make her. Ask yourself one question: if she has sex with someone else--and she likes it more with him/her than you, then what? The swinger lifestyle is often seen as fun and glamourous; sadly, it is often very depressing, and can destroy marriages, especially if one of the spouses is not comfortable with it. You may need to take a long, hard look at your marriage and ask yourself: Am I bored, or am I ready to not be married? If you're bored, get some counseling, so you can learn how to spice up your marriage without others. If you are not ready to commit in a marriage, then you need to make some hard decisions about ending the relationship. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-19 02:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never can force anyone to do something you like, especially in the area of sex. Sex is even more so for women a emotional thing, rather than just pure lust, it's hard to separate those two. So if you really love you wife, you can't make her do anything against her own will, otherwise it's called abuse.
2007-01-19 01:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its supposed to go something like this
"how do i get my wife to stop having sex with other men"
in a perfect world
2007-01-19 01:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cyrill sneer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, is your wife down with your idea? If so, find swingers website. But if your wife is hot, there shouldn't be any problems getting a guy to have sex with her. Hell, she doesn't even have to be hot at all actually. There are horn dogs everywhere in this world. Good luck
2007-01-19 01:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by stryc9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you do that you may be opening up can of worms you don't want.... what if you talk her into doing this , and then decide that you don't like it...Can you live with the thought of your wife with another man or men for the rest of your life...The same may go for her...women are very jealous creatures by nature...so be care-full what you wish for, it just might come true
2007-01-19 01:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by french1 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Take her to Hedonism in Jamaica. A lot of swinger couples go there to find other couples to have sex with.
2007-01-19 04:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about it? Let her know how you feel. Ask her if she would like to have sex with another man. You might start off slow by having a threesome with you, her and another guy. She might reject the idea right off the bat but don't take that as rejection. With woman, they reject things fast, think about it and then change their mind.
2007-01-19 01:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her. You obviously don't have any respect or love for her.
From the sounds of it she would be better off without you.
After all she is YOUR WIFE and not other people's play thing.
She is not there just for your amusement. She is there for you to love, honor and protect.
Better still if she read this she may end up leaving you.
Sort your head out. You have problems.
2007-01-19 02:38:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋