I am male, in my forties and enjoyed sex ever since then.
2007-01-19 01:34:23 · 16 answers · asked by beegee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
One of the really difficult aspects of child molestation is that it's not uncommon for the child to "enjoy" the experience on some level. This creates a huge amount of confusion and guilt, and in many ways can be responsible for the lingering sexual difficulties such a victim may experience. So, no, it's not weird. But I'm glad that your sex life seems to be normal, because that's certainly the exception in cases of adults who were molested as children.
2007-01-19 02:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not state how old your uncle was at the time or the extent of the 'rape' - and also since you put it in quotes it seems like it was not a full on sexual act. In any event your feelings are yours and you have every right to fell the way you do.
Some people may consider that I was molested at 14 by my step brother who was 19 but in reality I knew exactly what was happening and was very willing to do what happened between us.....
2007-01-19 02:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
being abused at that age - you didn't know any better. Your uncle probably told you how much he loved you...
...so of course you might have thought it was a proper thing to do and enjoy.
I'm glad it hasn't impacted on your ability to enjoy a healthy sex life.
2007-01-19 04:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, since I have never been raped. Did that experience make you enjoy sex with men or is it women that your prefer? I am not being sarcastic either, just wondered if that experience made you gay, bi, or hetero.
2007-01-19 01:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like someone said, it's not weird as such, but you might consider talking to someone about it (especially if it ends up causing problems later on; the fact that you're cool with everything now doesn't mean you always will be).
2007-01-19 04:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Atropis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its weird to enjoy being raped....but i guess you shouldnt even use the word ...maybe say molested but even with that its weird..maybe you should talk to a specialist because thats scary....
2007-01-19 04:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes that's weird being raped shouldnt be enjoyed
2007-01-19 01:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by J_B_BaLlin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You enjoyed being raped?
2007-01-19 01:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kedar 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No! because you were little, you didn't know what was going on. You just knew you were getting pleasure. It's not your fault! Don't feel guilty about it.
2007-01-19 06:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, I was raped by a boar in my neighbor's farm and I enjoyed that
2007-01-19 01:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋