How should I do? Please help me?
My family was very happy for nearly 15 years. 2 months ago, my husband betrayed me and dated with another woman. When I knew this, he decided to go with her, despite we have a happy family with very cute boy. I love my husband so much so my heart is broken. Then we agreed that we are friend now and I am encouraged with my future plan. Now his lover refused him to stay with her husband, My husband is broken heart and he decide to go to another place together with us. Our before plan is that we go there seperately. But how can we do this? Is it possible for him to love me again and vice versa? If we live seperately, is it possible that he love me again?
2007-01-19 01:17:12 · 4 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really felt so sad to hear that even you and your husband is staying happily for 15 years and yet he still betrayed you.
Does this all guy behaviour or we women need to suffer from their betrayer. You have been pretty strong and brave already.
Handling such cases even with children will not sound so calm like you. Its really been tough for you lately, isn't it?
Now you are considering to go to another place with him seperately. If he still upsad because of the lover refuse to stay with him and he turns to you than you have to consider it clearly.
Did you ask your child if he want his dad back?
2007-01-19 03:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much you need him. It sounds to me as if you do need him very much and until you can get stronger, you might be better off going with him. Try to address why he went with another woman. Were you getting on? It seems to me that a lot of men expect to be married and go with other women, only they don't want to be found out. When I discovered my husband was unfaithful, he said that he wouldn't have left if I hadn't confronted him. If you think you can live with his betrayal and need him, then do the best you can to win him back.
2007-01-19 09:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by jospinelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is very possible.... Love is more then just a feeling it is a choice from the heart. You should also seek counseling and maybe even marriage counseling for your marriage if there is saving and hope for the marriage.
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2007-01-19 10:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well b/c you guys were married for 15 yrs i would think it should be easy for you guys to still love i think he will always love you but maybe he don't want to make the commitment b/c he don't want to hurt you again and maybe you should let that be for the sake of the whole family
2007-01-19 09:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋