We were best friends for years and we ended up ruining it by falling in love with each other and going out...i knew i shouldn't have done it cuz i knew it would mess up our friendship we had together we were like brother and sister!Well what happen was we got into a fight and broke up and became enemys for a while well one time he called the police on me for something stupid that had to do with my family finacial problems...so we never spoke again but i feel like all our years of friendship is drained and i want to trust him again but i can't i don knowif i should be friends with him again after what he did. Were talking now kinda but it ain't like best best friends like we used to it's kinda ackward. I don know what to even say to him! It's weird! Should i forgive him and be friends with him just not best friends? Or should i just leave it alone and not talk to him ever again and forget about it all? I kinda wanna be friends with hi magin but my husband hates him! Can u help??!!!
2007-01-19 01:12:25 · 6 answers · asked by Christie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmm..this is a tough one, but I can kinda relate in a way..Back in June, I started going out with my best guy friend..and we've been together and in love for about 7 1/2 months now..=] Initially, I didn't wanna go out with him because if something were to ever happen to us, I'd lose his friendship..But your case sounds horrible because he called the cops on you and all..I mean, it's kind of obvious to me that you want to be friends with this guy again..or you probably wouldn't be asking this question...Your husband should understand that at one time this guy was like a brother to you, and how it hurts you that he was being such a *dirty word* haha:)..So just talk to him..you could work things out and be friends again, I hope..
Good luck!
2007-01-19 01:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband hates him, why would you try to rekindle a relationship gone horribly wrong? Understandable that he was your best friend in the past and you will have times when you miss that, but you are married now. Your husband is, or should be, your best friend. I am not saying never speak to this man again, but keep it at a very big distance. If you see each other somewhere, speak, and then move on. Don't keep in touch with him on a regular basis or you may end up losing your husband over a man that turned his back on you once!
2007-01-19 01:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I think you made the very common mistake of thinking you're in love with your opposite gender friend. If we hang around with our guy friend enough it's very common to think that we like them more, even though most of the time we don't. I think you should have stretched this friendship a bit longer.
One of the most important things though, is that now that you are apparently older and with a husband you are able to be more mature about it and talk to you best friend about it. Surely you can forgive each other and work something out.
2007-01-19 01:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by jmt347@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there really a question here??? He violated your trust, are you looking for that again??? If so go ahead with the friendship.
2007-01-19 01:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend doesn't call the cops on you!
2007-01-19 01:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by D.Y. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls make your question is too long make it short remeber u give me bad anser i catch u in qustion
2007-01-19 01:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by tarang p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋