Me and my fiance have been trying to have a baby for sometime now. Last month my period went for 2 days then spotted for 4 days! i took 2 pregancy test and they both said negative!!! i don't know what to do, cuz i really want to have a baby!!!! Any suggestions???????????
2007-01-19 01:08:33 · 7 answers · asked by cuttiegirl114 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Don't despair, just keep trying. Remember: the best thing about kids is making them.
2007-01-19 01:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Sometimes when you try too hard, your body won't do what you want it to. Just relax, try not to think about it too much and let nature do it's work. It seemed like the more I wanted to get pregnant, the more disappointed I was when I wasn't preggo. Then, when I quit obsessing about it, BAM, I had my baby. Otherwise, if you think it might be something medical, go get checked by an ob/gyn or something just to ease your mind. Good luck.
2007-01-19 09:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by ojibwechik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to stop worrying. Stress does'nt help the process. The second thing to do is have sex every other day. This is what I did and now I have a 3 month old daughter.
Best of Luck
2007-01-19 09:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to 1 and 1 on the way 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you stress the harder it will be to become pregnant. have you seen a doctor and talked about fertility tests if your having trouble. it could take over a year to conceive. my husband and I are trying too. we arent really ready yet, but I went off the pill cuz I know it will probably take me some time and if it doesn happen right away then thats fine too, but I'm not stressing about it.
2007-01-19 10:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF GOOD LUCK!I KNOW THIS IS A LITTLE OFF THE QUESTION YOU ASKED BUT I THREW IN A LITTLE EXTRA INFO.
I READ THE FOLLOWING BOOKS AND THEY REALLY HELPED ME FIGURE EVERYTHING OUT. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK! I AM ALSO TRYING TO GET PREGNANT AND IT TAKES TIME SOMETIMES. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND BEST WISHES!
I PUT IN A FEW WEB SITES THAT MIGHT HELP YOU !GREAT BOOKS IF YOU ARE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT (GETTING PREGNANT by: NIELS H. LAUERSEN,MD,PHD &COLETTE BOUCHEZ)(TAKING CHARGE OF YOUR FERTILITY by:TONI WESCHLER,MPH) THEY REALLY HELPED ME. THESE TWO BOOKS COVERED EVERYTHING AND THEY WERE GREAT.
I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!ANOTHER THING IS JUST RELAX AND IT WILL HAPPEN WHEN YOU AT LEAST EXPECT IT!
Source(s):
http://www.babyhopes.com/ovulation-calen...
http://www.storknet.com/cubbies/preconce...
http://www.mymonthlycycles.com
2007-01-19 09:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do sex in fertile days .......or whn ovulation takes place........generally it depends on ur cycle but still its on 14th to 17th day in ur cycle....include ur 4 days of period also in it.
Best of luck
2007-01-19 09:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason sometimes to much sex makes it harder dont know why
2007-01-19 09:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋