Whether youre strong, weak, wild, meek, laidback, domineering, submissive, etc. What kind of partner do you think you need to make a relationship work? What kind of man or woman would compliment you well and allow you to have the kind of relationship that will work for you.Tell me what kind of woman you are and what qualitites would be needed in the man or woman to allow for a working 'romantic' relationship between you.
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2007-01-19 01:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by angelkarmachic 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
There seems to be a little pattern forming although its hard to be sure in such a small group, but we seem to go for men who have some of the same qualities as us. I am a strong natural woman, not afraid of my looks, and can use if them if I feel its justified. I've found my perfect partner who is also strong, he is an alpha male and a good match for me. He can be kind and sensitive, he knows how I feel without me telling him and he knows when I need a hug or to be left alone. We communicate so well together on ANY topic, we are always honest with each other and if I go off on one of my PMS rants, he doesnt take my crap and talks me back into reality When he has a mini male breakdown, I feel its my place to then talk him back to reality. He is the best friend I've ever had and I know I am his. We talk for hours and hours everyday, no tv but occassionally we get sukered into the odd show. We read to each other and he makes me feel safe, cared for, and loved at all times. I love you baby
2007-01-19 10:53:23 · update #1
The best of luck to you rug, I hope you come here to Scotland to get married if thats something youd consider, marriage I mean. I really do hope for the best for your relationship.
Karma blessings.
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2007-01-19 14:45:19 · update #2
I'm a strong independent woman, who in turn needs a strong man to TRY and take care of me. LOL. I'm just kidding. My husband is a very dominant strong male, I guess you could refer to him as an Alpha male. What makes our relationship work, is the way he treats me. He treats me like I'm his princess, which is phenomenal! I couldn't ask for anything more.
2007-01-19 01:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by angelonthesun 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a strong woman, pretty laidback, my partner is also laidback. I don't wanna say he is weak because he's not but he does let me take the drivers seat a lot "so to speak". I think he respects my opinion...or maybe just doesn't want the responsibility of decision making. We are both pretty meek but he is the meeker of us two.
My theory is the fact that I'm the oldest child (of my siblings) and he is the youngest child (of his siblings) plays a role in our behavior in our home. Our relationship has been working for 6 years and counting.
To keep the romance going we continue our friendship and try not to get caught up in navigating through life. We spend time together independent of our family time with the kids and work on projects together. We watch movies and have discussions, if one of us has a bad day the other tries to be encouraging and inspirational. All those things contribute to a nourishing environment which allows cuddlling and leads to romance.....going on a date...just having a drink together....we actually "kick it" while we are shopping for home items.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-19 09:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by rockinrobyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In me you are going to see many contrasts. Most would probably describe me as submissive once I mention that I believe in being obedient and that I am just exactly that.
I am also extremely strong which contrasts with the obedient bit.
Yet, I make it workout. I do as I told never question why, but when there is a topic as you have seen here on Y/A I do speak my mind.
What I need is a strong Alpha type male who is wise and that is what I have.
2007-01-20 02:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a little older than most Folk in this Group. I tend to look more at their Heart. Being Honest beats out most any other quality that she would have to have. I've played the Game. And had it played on me. I got back to the Basics. And found Honesty to be the foundation of who I wanna spend my time with. Just recently, I just found someone, that MAY fit that idea. Wish me Luck!
2007-01-19 15:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a strong willed women who is motivated and a strong believer in persistence. I need a man who is not afraid to stand up and tell me I am blowing smoke and WHY. Or tell me where my strengths are and WHY. I need a man who isn't afraid to rock the boat a little and can understand that life isn't always peaches and cream. Someone who won't back down from adversity and understands that stability and responsibility walk hand and hand.
2007-01-19 09:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by bluebettalady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see myself as a caring strong woman because of the things I have faced in life. My man needs to be caring and strong also.
2007-01-19 09:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Aliz 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I consider myself a strong, independent, complete woman. However, my boyfriend WANTS to protect me, feed me, relieve my stress, make me laugh, keep me warm, etc. I don't NEED him to, in fact I've had to adjust in allowing him to take on these tasks. But I let him bc its his way of showing me he loves me. Its worth it bc in the end you have a companion to share your life with and plenty of memories to create with. And I love that. Also, just bc I let him do these things for me doesn't mean I can't do it on my own if I had to. Thats why its important for young women to take time to be independent in order to know how to take care of themselves before committing to a serious relationship.
What makes our relationship romantic is a variety of things including physical attraction, and being able to connect in a way that you can't with anybody else. He cracks me up all the time, and I'm attracted to his positive attitude and independent nature.
2007-01-19 11:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had heard men answering obnoxiously to these kind of questions.
The answer they always gave was "Women need security"
and while He said that i pictured him with his girlfriends/ affairs while his 2nd wife stays at home.
I will say women need a responsible man , the one that makes her happy, the one that makes her know that he is trustworthy in every way.
2007-01-19 09:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by nodrama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am strong and stubborn, sometimes controlling, i am looking for someone who is laidback and doesnt mind leveling me without trying to change me. also i respond to romance thats all
2007-01-19 12:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One who will f@ck my brains out and who will pay the support fot the child im gonna give him..
2007-01-20 12:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Zbenguici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋