Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 months ago over a misunderstanding, i hurt her by saying things in haste, before hand we were really in love, big time. She said she never wanted to see me again but we have since made at a party and made friends. We talkied about my problems and she wants 2 b there for me as a friend, she told me she will never lose her love for me but she doesn't want what we had. I think she is confused and over the nite i caught her looking at me alot. we went from not speaking 2 her sleeping in my arms. We now speak daily by text and she has started taliking about the times we had 2geather. I love this girl so much, how do i get her to trust me again. i can't stop thinking about her,i want to be with her, wat can i do??? we have made big progress so far
2007-01-19 00:34:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well yours is a nice story to hear. just let things unfold before your eyes...dont rush it..if your are really meant for each other nothing nor no one can stop it. rediscover each others interests, spend time together doing the things you both enjoy...let the bond of your relationship as friends now, grow deeper and deeper each time you are together....and before you know it, you two are back in each others' arms. wish u well.
2007-01-19 00:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, it sounds like your lady isn't completely over you either. I think it's time to woo her. A single rose bud left for her at home or work (we love getting flowers in front of other people), a couple of days a week. Tell her how wonderful she is, the sympathy thing is nice. It's good she's there for you, but you don't want her to start feeling like she's your mother. Show her you can there for her as well, that you can be her man.
Watch a few romantic comedies to get ideas. The romantic gestures, the romantic gestures my friend these are what is called for.
Romantic film recommendations off the top of my head, that might have inpiration for a guy on a mission to win back the girl:
Moonstruck
You've Got Mail
The Mirror Has Two Faces
Runaway Bride
2007-01-19 08:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Musetta F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question for you. The things you said to her in haste, how would you feel if they were said to you. Now take yourself out of your box and put yourself in her shoes on that particular day and imagine those words were being said to you?
Do you feel she has a right to decide what was best for her at that time even if it meant she left you? Her fear may be that she can't trust you because she doesn't know if you will do that to her again!
2007-01-19 09:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. It sounds like she's thinking about you. Keep being cool with her and she'll probably come around. If you want to gain her trust, be where you say you're going to be and do what you say you're going to do. When she asks you a question, tell the truth. These things will cause her to trust you again.
2007-01-19 08:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're slowly earning her trust back. she might not want what you had immediately, but if you continue to go at the pace you're going, you may have her back before you know it. keep it up, and hopefully things work out for the best!
2007-01-19 09:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up whatever you are doing....you are making progress. Ask her out on a date and tell her you want another chance. Don't make it so hard.
2007-01-19 09:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you are sorry and ask her if you two can start over and let her know that you love her...because if you wait too long she will be lost and maybe for good...so, call her and do it now....lisa
2007-01-19 08:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by LISA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up keep on talking and texting her you never no what will happen next :)
2007-01-19 08:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by SofBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go head
forget past
2007-01-19 08:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by aamirtaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what you can do!!!
2007-01-19 08:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by ksf122385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋