okay my ex got me pregnant and left me . at frist he didnt believe me then he did but he said he didnt want the "f***er" so i had my mother tell him i wasnt anymore.because i thought hey its only one i can do this well the i found out they were twins and i knew i couldnt do it on my own so i went and had an abortion my friends and my mother thinks he should know i dont know what to do im only 16 and hes 17 and i dont know if i should tell him or not
2007-01-19 00:13:54 · 14 answers · asked by Amada 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mandy,
I think only you can decide when and if you should tell him. He has suffered a great loss, though he may not realize it even if you told him. The act of human creation is the most miraculous thing we can accomplish on Earth.
I'm sorry for your loss, and I sympathize with your position. I wish you the best in the future...and a husband and family to love...
2007-01-19 00:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my God! Girl I'm so sorry u had to suffer at a young age. I know it's not gonna do anygood but I think u shouln't have an arbortion and plz in future don't do it again. I think that u would have found a plan to take care of the twins and they would've helped you in the future. But anyway wats done is done. Now about the guy, he didn't believe you when you told him and yet he slept with you "without a condom" and at the same tym he felt the sperms comin out, so I think he don't deserve you and neither to know about you havin an abortion. I think tell him when he asks.
2007-01-19 00:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rihanha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually do not believe in endindg up relationships in a hurry, but this one is too much. Its high time dear that u should leave this boy before he makes ur life a hell. just forget everything and live ur life. Move on in life without wasting any more time on this boy. take care and be very cautious that u dont repeat such a thing again. bye, and ENJOY .
2007-01-19 00:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by NEHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in telling him now. He is an ex and you already aborted. So what is the use in telling him now. But if you want him back, you can tell him. Otherwise there is no point.
2007-01-19 00:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What purposoe would you gain from even talking to him. You aborted the babies so there really is no reason. He made it very clear that he wanted no part of it.
2007-01-19 00:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he didn't want to help you with one baby, he most likely wouldn't have helped you with two.... second of all though it may have seemed like the right thing at the time, abortions are never the answer.... there's always adoption...... and thirdly, you should move on with your life.... forget the past and look toward the future.
2007-01-19 00:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by pinkyfritz20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are too many deadbeat fathers in this world and who knows you may have been with one but in the end he migght have helped!It was his baby too!He should have known!He might have wanted to raise his kids after he saw them and why end 2 lives when you could put them up for adoption?
2007-01-19 00:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by kaitlyn s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you. Let him go. Do NOT waste anymore time or energy thinking about this chump. He made his choice - get on with your life.
2007-01-19 00:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes your ex dont tell him its none of his business but i lost my ex's baby and he wanted to be with me again so i told him and it devestated him but if you guys are probably never going to get back together and you're doing it for sympathy NO
2007-01-19 00:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by hollaatyagirlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my girl....just leave it & forget it! Go make peace what you emotionally went thru....& please get some councilling! Theres someone special out there for you...right now you need to build your future!
2007-01-19 00:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋