2007-01-18 22:55:53 · 21 answers · asked by trinna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pretty good indicator
2007-01-18 22:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be over but it doesn't have to be. The relationship is over if you both or one of you desides that it is. The actions of your partner simply indicate that there really is a problem that needs attention and fixing IF the two of you get past your emotions and look forward to the healing. Healing begins when one or both of you realize that each may have had something to do with the problem and are willing to accept responsibility. If the partner doesn't want to fix the problem after the dust has settled or choses not to accept their part in the problem then I would say let go and start the healing process on your own without your partner.
2007-01-19 07:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation more than once over the years. Fortunately, most times when I knew my partner was cheating, I did not care. We are still friends today but that is only because I did not care enough then and do not hold any resentment.
2007-01-19 07:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you've hit breaking point, and you've just had enough of what may be a high maintenance relationship.
But then again... you are only speculating that he may be having an affair.. if your are right in believing he is doing the dirty, you will most likely still feel betrayed and suffer some form of heartache when the reality hits home (depending on how serious your relationship was of course).
Remind yourself that you are better of without him if it does turn out to be true... learn from your heartache and move on to greener pastures!
2007-01-19 07:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly don't care, it is over, and you would be doing yourself a favor to get out of the relationship and move on with your life. Hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-19 08:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I would say its pretty much over if you dont seem to care about whether the other person is cheating or not
2007-01-19 06:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by kelly_420_brian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur that not caring is a contributing factor to cheating?
No I guess not.
Maybe falling in love with the zoo guy is too (previous question).
2007-01-19 07:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
2007-01-19 07:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by james b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess it is safe to say if u don't care than it's over, but the not caring part may be your way of dealing with it, or avoiding the hurt involved, by telling yourself u don't care to protect your ego, and self worth.
2007-01-19 07:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean it's over. That's a decision you have to make for yourself. That happened to me last weekend. I was angry and my husband and I fought, then I realized he did what he did(I'm still not sure what he did or that he did it). It was just easier to put it behind me, because I'm not going to leave him (this time!!).
2007-01-19 07:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Marygoroun(d) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is over. You do not care because you are already moving on. Go ahead.
2007-01-19 07:00:45 · answer #11 · answered by 1967 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋