2007-01-18 22:48:14 · 23 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him? HAHAHAHAHA men will take it to the grave.....you can catch him in bed and you will get the "wasn't me" If you think something is going on chances are you are right. Watch for breaks in patterns, is his cell phone glued to him, showers as soon as he gets home, does he talk about a friend alot, does he always have to go to the store, work late, leave the room to talk on the phone, talks on the phone in code oh and the classic.....turn it around on you.....i could go on and on.............yep im a man....trade secrets
2007-01-18 23:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rasta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through this and there was no way to tell at all i only found out 3 weeks after we got married because the other women decided to tell me he even then denied it for 5 more days then finally admitted defeat and told me the truth its the hardest thing Ive ever been through its been nearly 2 year since i found out and 5 years since he did it and iam still raw with pain it really hurts. i hope everything gos OK for you and that he is being faithful i wouldn't wish it on anyone good luck
2007-01-18 23:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can certainly ask him, I can assure you he will not tell the truth if he is.It will just make him aware that you know something is wrong, so he will need to be more cautious.
However, he may not be having an affair, the best thing is to lay your "cards on the table" and communicate with each other
2007-01-18 22:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by busy lizy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its mostly the same for both sexes, if he's a lier, then he will lie. The first thing to look for is there things that don't add up, taking him too long to get home from work, or store? Is there telephone calls that he doesnt want you to hear? Does he say he needs his own space? Working a lot of overtime, and not having the money to go with it?
2007-01-18 22:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he wont tell you the truth if he is cheating then why do you care about the truth ? kick his sorry butt to the curb ,divorce him and get everything you can out of him . You know house,car,kids everything . My motto is they want to cheat then I am going to take them to the cleaners. good luck and I hope I helped.
2007-01-18 23:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is in his Eyes. You women know how to read us like a Book. If he won't look, straight at you. Bingo! Get out now!
2007-01-18 22:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he really loves you (unromantically), he will tell you that he is cheating but if he is not in love you, he will only lie to you and become very agressive each time you bring up the subject.
2007-01-18 22:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband cheated and i never knew.. :( he talked so much about how he hated cheaters, and would never do such a thing. when i found a girls number in his phone he just said it was nothing, and changed the subject, i guess i was a little nieve really. he finally told me a year later what he did
2007-01-19 03:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by hm84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know because he will start doing things and acting strange and when you ask him he is going to respond with who,what ,when ,and where and no he will not tell the truth if his life depended on it.trust me cause i've been there.
2007-01-19 01:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do an investigation. Or hire a P.I. to do one for you. Because you don't know for sure if he will tell you the truth. Or be man enough to admit to his mistakes.
2007-01-18 22:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ 2 ♥ U BABY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋