My husband wants to take a vication alone and he dosnt want to take me or the kids with him what shall I do ???????????
2007-01-18 21:25:24 · 23 answers · asked by hope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him go. Dont think about what he could do just trust in the love that you two have for each other that he will stay faithful to you while he is away. Guess what he could be thinking the same thing about you while he is away so just trust in love that everything is going to be alright. I've taken two tips without my husband and left him with the kids, I think you should take a trip as well you both need a little me time with each other and the kids everything will be fine.
2007-01-19 02:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by 2cool4you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is being very selfish but maybe he does just need a quiet break. Has he ever cheated before? Do you trust him? Is he usually a sneaky selfish kind of man? Ask alot of questions do some checking on him and then let him go if he is cheating or planning on it you might as well find out now and that way you can get out and if everything checks out and you don't think he is cheating take a break yourself when he gets back.
2007-01-19 00:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your snooping career is about to take off. You need to check credit card receipts/bills, cell phone usage and if he spends time on the computer at home you need to check that as well. You also need to check his pay stubs if he is an hourly employee and any use of an ATM card. He is giving off selfish, self-centered vibes as though he has an agenda that is not consistent with a wife and children.
2007-01-18 22:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we have enough information. Other than the fact that he wants to leave you and the kids so that he can vacation, is your marriage OK? Is he willing to let you vacation alone? And, most importantly, do you trust him? If the answer to all of these is yes, then let him go on his vacation.
2007-01-18 21:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by rtobor84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recently my husband and I were invited to a wedding for his nephew...IN LAS VEAGS! I couldnt go because I couldn't get time off of work. I was not happy, who wants their husband on a vacation in vegas without their wife? He wanted to go and said "why should i not go to the wedding because you can't go?" Pretty darn insensative if you ask me. He ended up going. I even booked his ticket because i was tired of hearing him whine. So he went. I was concerned about the opportunitites that might arise with other women, but i thought...hey! if he is going to be unfaithful he can do that here, where we live too. So i had to trust him. If your hsuband wants to go without you or the kids you could try to get a babysitter for the kids and go with him. If his intentions are to go by himself period then tell him you don't agree with his decision. I woudl be interested in knowing why he wants to go on vacation by himself?
2007-01-18 21:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by denise b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the only reason that comes to my mind is that he is taking it with someone else and it is another woman . Find out for sure and if it is .kick his sorry tail to the curb and file for divorce and take everything away from him . House ,car everything . Leave him peniless . He wants to be a dog then treat him like one . good luck and i hope I helped.
2007-01-18 23:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go have fun. The day he returns, have your things packed, leave the kids with him and take your own vacation. Fair is fair.
2007-01-18 22:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by alexis09178 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wives out there pls help. What are wives expecting from their husbands?
2016-11-12 01:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he comes back...you take a vacation alone and leave him with the kids. but don't tell him until the last minute.
2007-01-19 01:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does anyone have an ex husband like mine?
2017-03-03 19:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋