my husband lied and betrayed to me 4 times but promise not to do it again, should i forgive him again?

Question

he is having an affair with 4 different woman ,since I work abroad for 3 years I'm so tired of this! NO TEARS TO CRY!! help!we have 1 kid.

Answer 1

ERRRR...... NO!!!
i wouldn't of taken him back after the first time. if he loved and respected you, he wouldn't of done it once, let alone 4 times. forgiving him this many times is in a way saying to him "go ahead"
Leave him, for you and your child, he is not exactly the best role model for your child.
Good luck

Answer 2

No don't 4give him men like that are a waste of space get rid him he has cheated on u 4 times already whats saying he wont do it again u only have his word 4 it "U CANT TEACH AN OLD DOG NEW TRICKS" leave him its the only thing u can do 4 u and Ur kid

Answer 3

Cry no more tears cos there are better men out there just dying to have your company.
You have waited around long enough and now he is taking you for granted.
Get a new wardrobe, make up you face, a new hairdo and you wil be leaning on someone else shoulder

Answer 4

Ask yourself this, do I want my child to think that type of behavior is OK? After a certain age you cant keep this sort of thing from them,even if you tried.If you want to stay get professional help find out why he cheats,maybe he has a serious problem,if he does he must be willing to be helped,you cant fix him.Letting your self be used as a door mat is not what you want your child to learn.For our children to know what a relationship should be like,we must not only tell them but show them by example.

Answer 5

I'm a guy, and I despise jerks like this. I'm sorry, but he's going to do it again, and again, no matter what you do or say.

He may not be able to help it or he simply may not care. Either way, you and your child will continue to suffer as long as you are married to him. There are many better men out there and you can eventually find one after you dump this jerk. Get yourself a good lawyer right away to make sure this jerk meets his financial obligations to you and his child.

Answer 6

I think it would be hard today to find a man who will be loyal if left for 3 years. But if you ddo find one, that's the one you should be with. In this case, just leave your hubby. I agree with some of the posters. Once MAY BE okay, but 4...you gotta be kidding me.

Answer 7

He sounds like a real asshole! You would be so stupid to forgive him again! Don't do it, silly girl!! Men like him deserve to be castrated! So honey, take your little kid and find yourself a decent guy, one who will love you for the lovely lady you are! Don't ever think you should stay with that scum because you have his kid, that would be totally worong because he will always be sticking his c#ck in other women, that's his game. He is bad news for you, you will be happier without him!

Answer 8

even if you worked right there at home the chances of him being faithful are next to nothing,at this point it is a trust issue for you and you are going to have to decide if you can trust him not to go out on you any more and alway's be there for your child as your child is or will see what is going on and just the constant stress of it is not good for anyone involved.if it is beyond fixing get out and be happy and give your ghild a happy stress free anviorment.good luck

Answer 9

I would normally say if happened a second time, it will always happen. but you have been in another country for 3 years? thats way too long, either give up on it or move back together. It may already be too late.

Answer 10

Until you feel that you can trust him again you probably should seperate from him, it is not healthy for either you or your child to live in a household where there is so much distrust going on, Tell him that if he truly wants it to work out betweeen you then he is going to have to regain your trust