My friend asked me a question, and i don't know how to answer it...?

Question

....because i don't know the answer, here's the question:

Can a doctor tell if you are still a virgin, even if you have masturbated, or used a dildo?

I can't go into details about why she needs that answer, but i will say that her mom is forcing her to get an examination and she is afraid.

Answer 1

Sweetie,they cannot,just because the hymen isnt intact doesnt mean shes in fact not a virgin.The hymen,is visible,but that doesnt indicate a loss of viriginity.However,her doctor cannot share that information with anyone even her mother,unless she consents.She is the patient,and it is her right to have a confidential visit at the doctors office mother or not.He cannot share that information with her mother unless her mother is present and over hears,or whether she gives the doctor permission to speak with her mother.Usually,they hymen will be broken during intercourse.Same can happen when using toys,and doing other activities such as horse back riding and some exercises that actually have nothing to do with sexual intercourse.It has been scientificly proven that some females are born without a hymen.It isnt extremely common,but it isnt impossible.However,it is possible to break it a different way.Good luck and have a good morning hun

Answer 2

No. they can tell in a pelvic exam if your hymen is broken, but that is not an indicator of penetration. A woman can lose her hymen during normal physical activity like horse riding or gymnastics or by using a tampon. Some women are born without a hymen at all.

To make it even more complicated, you can have intercourse and not break the hymen at all, depending on the size and position of the opening. It's rare, but it happens.

Answer 3

Ah. Well, a girl may break the soft tissue during masturbation. That skin is one way of knowing if a girl is still a virgin or not.

Answer 4

I doctor can tell if your hymen (famously known as your cherry) has been broken, but it can be broken by may different things, not just sex. Even if her doctor knows that she is not a virgin or that she has masterbated or whatever, they cannot tell her mother that. That goes against federal privacy laws & HIPPA & patient/doctor confidentiality. SHe shouldnt be afraid.

Answer 5

YES A DOCTOR WILL KNOW only if her HYMEN has been damaged. a hymen is a thin piece of skin that rips when you have sex for the first time and causing the vaginal area to bleed. if she didnt bleed during her dildo play she will be fine.

Answer 6

yes the doc will be able to tell but tell her not 2 be embarrassed about it the docs are more concerned about her health not whether she is a virgin or not. Tell her to go get the checks she needs. Take care. xx

Answer 7

in most cases, yes a doctor can tell, in texas the law allows the girl privacy during a papmser and pelvict exam at least thats how it was when i first went ( yet that was years ago)

Answer 8

If she has had sex her hymen will be broken. This sometimes breaks using tampons but not very often.

Answer 9

He can only tell if the hymen is broken

Answer 10

I don't think so. I'm not sure though and I'm curious to know, too.