My son is love struck! He met this girl who convinced him that he fathered her son. Apparently, it is untrue and DNA analysis proved it. My son however is head over heels towards this girl who has no motherly instincts. She refuses to care for the baby. She also refuses her baby to suckle the milk from her breast. For humanitarian reasons, we take care of the baby (additional expense) although we knew definely the baby was not fathered by my son. My son is BEWITCHED and we dont know what to do! The girl left our house but is able to see her baby anytime by just calling my son who would rush to be with her. The poor baby is abandoned both by my son and her mother. We dont know what to do :(
2007-01-18 21:09:05 · 3 answers · asked by pilipinas2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
help your son meet another woman, place an add for him, screen and find the right woman.for him.. when your son meets a better woman than that woman you do not like , he will go for the better woman.... she seems like a user, you touch her and you have to pay her for life, through DNA...try to find out who the father is and give the child to the father, everytime they leave the child with you... contact the father and tell him to pick the child up, that will be a turn off, just say he showed up at the door demanding his kid and you had no choise but to give the kid to the father.. this will be a turn off and will make them take care of the kid... now about the breast feeding.. hahaha you are funny.... no comment on that... but to get her away from your son you need to find a better woman for your son.. place an add on the paper or web looking for a bride for your son.. as for your son being irresponsible...you are the one that raised him....so start teaching him a lesson....make her and him do chores in the house and one or both will want to move out soon. make the chores daily things.. dishes, clothing and use the excuse you are getting her ready for marriage for your good son.. and say that to your son, too.. she will just hate you cause her intention is to use you and your son..
2007-01-18 22:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a fantastic job you have done helping looking after the baby and giving it love..You may need to look at giving up for adoption as there are plenty of infertile couples wanting babies an Iam sure would look after the child.Maybe this might bring the girl to her senses.As for not letting the baby suck on its mother the girl might have a physical problem with feeding. I did.
2007-01-18 21:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that she is an unfit mother, then maybe you should get custody of the child (I don't know where you are, but where I am, you can get custody of a child even if it is not a blood relation, as long as you can prove the mother is unfit).
Also, why did you feel it was necessary to mention that she doen't breastfeed? That doesn't make her a bad mother.
2007-01-18 21:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by rtobor84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋