ok, so here's the drama... i have this friend, a girl friend and she's just 16! she went to her boyfriend's party which was like two months ago. i didn't go with her coz i was busy with my own business that time. yesterday, we were together at lunch and she told me that she thinks she's pregnant and she's very, very worried! as in crazily... i told her its her own fault. the thing is, she's afraid to tell her parents... if she is pregnant! she wants me to help her and of course, i want to... but how? i can't give her abortion as an answer to her prob., right? that will just surely make things harder for her...so please, help me. i really want to help her out. thanks much! buh- bye...
2007-01-18 20:59:07 · 3 answers · asked by CB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're correct, it's her fault
that said, she needs to tell either her parents, doctor, or counsoler. They'll put her in touch with plan parenthood (which is free!) They're perfesiionals and they'll know what to do. it's embarrassing but what's more embarasing is having them find out another way and then asking you.
The sooner she tells the more options she has. HURRY! go tell her :) good luck ;)
2007-01-18 21:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first she has to find out if she's really pregnant. I'd recommend the free clinic, and yes there's place everywhere, you just have to search for em. Other than that, don't use the cheap tests from the drug store. Don't have her running he rmouth if she isn't sure. If she's late it can be due to many things, especially if she's stressing because she thinks she' pregers. 've done it many a times. Then if she is, she has to tell them. When I was younger I thought my dad would kill me as well. But they'll realize she needs help. After all, they're adults. Do not recommend an abortion. That's expensive and has side effects. It's her fault and she can't take an unborn's life because she's too immature. First get the test done.
2007-01-19 05:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by stephyrose87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a Dr. you can give her the abortion. Hopefully she'll learn from this mistake.
2007-01-19 05:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋