To all the out ppl. Do you ever wish that you weren't gay. even just a thought that crossed your mind??? i am gay aswell. so its not a rude Q. :) Just want to know.
2007-01-18 20:41:29 · 8 answers · asked by Saffa_Boy_83 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
At one time I wished I was not gay because I didn't want to be treated so badly by people and I didn't want to be marginalized in life by people.Then I came to realize that wishing I was something that I wasn't was self defeating and so I came to accept who I was and decided to live this life for me and not for everyone who wants me to be like them.I have been much happier with my life ever since I did that.
2007-01-18 20:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I saw the movie "The Boys in the Band," it was quite convincing to me that just thinking about the idea "Gee, I wish I weren't gay" would be too painful.
2007-01-18 20:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to start to play the "What if" game you might as well just put a bullet in your head right now because you are born gay and you will die a gay man and no wishing will magically undo that fact.
2007-01-18 20:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to - back when I was trying to come to terms with it. Not anymore though. Most of the men I encounter are pigs - from my brother, right down to the @sshole stranger who will walk through a door and let it slam shut behind him in my face.
I'm glad I love women.
(No offense to the guys here - I don't hate ALL men...)
2007-01-18 20:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wish I were straight. I've embraced my homosexuality. But at times I do think about how easier my life would've been if I hadn't been gay.
2007-01-18 21:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I can not help it if I am gay ,or lesbian I have to accept and embrace and love the person I am. And thank God of what I am.
2007-01-18 20:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Happy with who I am.
2007-01-18 23:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Kedar 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no...not for years and years...i'm happy with who I am...I am so glad that i am not straight.
2007-01-18 22:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋