Is an Aries male and a Cancer female a good match??? or is this DOOOOOMED???
2007-01-18 19:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
LOVE CAN MAKE IT WORK : The Arian may have a lot of trouble trying to break through the protective shell of the Cancerian, the crab likes to hide his or her feelings inside and project to the world a very different image of being thicker skinned than they really are.
Eventually the Arian will break through and then he or she will find a very sensitive person with feelings that are easily damaged.
Cancer is initially attracted to Aries by the strong Arian personality but before long Cancer will find out just how different their value system is from one another and the fiery love of the Arian can cause Cancer to wonder just how long real love can last with such intensity and begins to doubt how long the Arians heartfelt declaration of love will endure.
Being Moody and easily hurt to the point where he or she may pout for days does not sit well with the direct and energetic Aries who thrives on activity and new beginnings.
The quiet outer facade' of Cancer was possibly the attraction for Aries as being a go getter can wear on the nerves and they like to have a quiet place to recover in peace.
Cancer is a homebody and wants a big family. The arian may not be ready for that for a few years to come, in which case, Cancer will soon lose interest in sex as secretly Cancer feels that sex is for procreation. This attitude will quickly drive Aries into the divorce court or someone elses' arms. The energetic, sociable, and forward looking Aries will not get along well with the home loving, protective, nurturing Cancer who likes to be the leader and will spend more time sulking than talking unless he or she is allowed to make most of the decisions in the home.
With all the differences in personalities clashing constantly this could be a shaky union at best, but with the higher type of Aries and the positive type of Cancerian it can be made to work.
2007-01-18 19:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about what others say. I am a cancer female married to an Aries man for over 28 years now. We've been together for 30. The couple that stood up for us at our wedding are also a Cancer woman/Aries man, and they have been married almost 40 years.
To say that the Cancer woman is all about having kids and the Aries man isn't, is not true either. In fact, it was just the opposite for me and my husband. He wanted them and I didn't. I also don't make my home the center of my life like Cancer people are supposedly suppose to do.
Don't shy away from an Aries man. He may be the perfect match for you just as well at an Aquarian man who is also not suppose to be a good match for us Cancer women. I also disagree with that too.
2007-01-19 04:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each will not appreciate the talents of the other. Both will find it difficult to please the other. The good talents of cancer to look after the house and hearth will be of no use to aries, and the rough and tough outdoor life of aries will weary the cancer. Each can rub the other, only the wrong way. To get the best each should complement the other, not compete, challenge or impress the other.
2007-01-18 22:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opss i read that....The worst match for Aries is Cancer and The best match for Aries is Leo
2007-01-19 20:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by stolen moment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually gemini and aquerious is good match too
2007-01-18 19:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a cancer and i find aries men move very fast. in fact to fast for my taste. before you even get a chance to know their name they are asking for sex. fast.
2007-01-22 14:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋