how can you be sure if you love the person that hes the right person to marry,since we have already a baby,he?

Question

hes not working,taking care of our baby,hes a taurus and never to have a good conversation with him bout plans, life etc. He treats me just like im a stupid kid,i provide milk and stuff for my kis and give him also want he wants but seems like im not apreciated.Wrote him thing that i dont like and he does take not of it.I dont know if he loves me or what.I stick to astrology thing to understand that hes only like that,hes ways is really like that.Pls. help need also tips if he really loves me.Im an pisces and i give all100% patience and understanding to his action and moods to me.Where leaving at his parents house.I find him so stiff and hard and he know this things, well he never comprehend.He rules

Answer 1

I believe that u have to understand a person as an individual. Grouping him in the astrology thing might not be of much help to you, because as individuals we respond to the same stimuli differently.
Sit down with your guy and try to understand how he feels about the whole thing. Telling him what u dont like without trying to understand how the situation affects him, might be taken as judgemental by him.
A lot of men dont like to be on the receiving end but rather as the providers. Some would compensate for such by being abusive one way or the other, maybe thats why u are saying he is controlling. But the cure is Talking it out. Especially listening. U might not be helping by complaining of your dislikes.
Try also to think of what u can do to improve the situation. Its not all about him u know.

the introspection will assist u in making the decision of having a future together.

Take care of those kids. It makes all the difference to have a caring mother.

All the best from me.

Answer 2

What does astrology really have to do with your life? The fact is, this guy is a lazy. He's making everyone else work for HIS responsibilities.
If you don't know if he loves you, WHY did you have the baby in the first place?
I recognize the lines that you have quoted....they are all EXCUSES on his part. A REAL MAN would never put you through this exhausting lifestyle. Take your children and MOVE OUT while you still have the energy. He will never marry you. He is USING you.
One more thing, Pisces, you are not giving 100%, you are giving 200% in order to match his 0.

Answer 3

Please don't 'stick to astrology' to understand your partner - people are the way they are out of choice, not because of they day they were born.

You could consider counseling, if he would be willing then go together... otherwise, go by yourself so that you can find out if this relationship has anywhere to go. Is there any way you can afford to live outside of his parents home; there seems to be no way for you to really know what your lives together in the future would be like (marriage etc) unless you can emulate that by getting a place just the two of you with the child.

As for whether he loves you - well, you'll certainly need the answer to that before you consider marriage, but he's the only person who can give you that answer. You need to sit down and talk about the future, because it sounds like you're both living in the present - this is good generally, but it means you're not making any plans for what you're going to work toward together, and with a child, this is something you need to start doing.

Good luck!

Answer 4

for your baby marry him .