lately iv been going through a series of bad relationships with men and iv just about given up,iv always known i was attracted to girls but im not sure if its better to date a girl or a guy because my brother says women are a nightmare???so now what?
2007-01-18 18:46:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Men and women are equally nightmares for different reasons.
Yes, you can most definitely be attracted to both, that's called being "Bisexual."
2007-01-18 18:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Test the waters. You have have bad relationships not matter what, with both men/women. You will never know if they (male or female) are a nightmare unless you try. Go for it. Date a woman and see. If you are unsure of that side of you be sure to inform your partner. It would not be fair to her if you do not have your whole heart into it.
2007-01-18 18:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of people out there who think all lesbians are men haters. Well I'll be quick to take up for the guys. Women are just as bad as men about alot of things. If you are attracted to both sexes its not about which sex is right, its about finding the right person.
2007-01-18 19:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly not all women are nightmare. you just have to find someone who will love you back when u love them. you can go on loving both girls and boys but some day, you will need to choose one or the other. try to find someone (whether a girl or a boy) who shares commons with u. that way u can communicate better and feel comfortable together.
2007-01-18 18:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Aedryna Bi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are bisexual and want to date a woman, date a woman. I've always envied bisexuals for having so much more choice. Since you have been having problems with men, it might be good for you to try dating women. I just hope you won't think of it as a "break."
2007-01-18 19:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by bishonenofcacophony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i date both genders
guys are easier socially for me
i am not a small talker type
i never obsessed over a band, food, clothing
i like it or not...........a low maintains guy relationship
i love women
but their desire to look more deeper at things
just does not set will for me
i like life fun, pleasant, sweet, ans simple
(i work a very stressful professional job)
what i found out
in my 20's....guys were fun, easy sex, and fun pals
and women were too interest in the "this is my man"
and "lets make plans for the future"
now in my thirties
i found that women in their 30's
much more realistic in being with and dealing with guys
after they had several major relationship failures
or a divorce from their college sweetheart
maybe the female thing is a good social thing for you
takes off the hunt (pressure for a man to settle down with
and just enjoy life......and work on your life's passions
achieve your goals...for your own personal satisfaction
good luck
Jon
http://www.kpdxw.com
keeping pdx weird
2007-01-18 19:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for women.(replica and paste) a million.In a guy..you may somewhat have him be.. A.candy &attractive B.sexy & wild C.warm,yet with an incredible character. Your answer: C 2.In a guy,you like his hair to be.. A.Black B.Blonde C.crimson Your answer: a three.Older or youthful? A.Older B.youthful Your answer: A 4.Whats his type? A.Preppy B.Emo..Punkish. C.Geekish. Your answer: not preppy, not geekish, not emo. 5.Is it warm if he wears "eyeliner" AKA "guy liner"?! A.specific B.NO Your answer: relies upon on the guy.
2016-10-07 09:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are a nightmare. The only difference is in how so, and not even always that.
2007-01-19 01:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by emily_brown18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no better or worse; it's equal on both sides. it all depends on how you feel. not trying to sway you or be a relationship person-type, but if it's a line of bad guys, maybe you're picking the wrong men.
2007-01-18 18:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by thatoneperson_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heeeeeey!
since angelina jolie said it best, im just gonna quote her
when Angelina was asked if she was bisexual, she responded, "Of course. If I fell in love with a woman tomorrow, would I feel that it's okay to want to kiss and touch her? If I fell in love with her? Absolutely! Yes!"[57]
2007-01-18 18:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by mememe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋