Were you convinced by a lover or friend to have a threesome with one of your female friends? Did it ruin your friend ship? Did it cause the both of you to loose trust in one another? Did you enjoy it and want to do it again? Are you still friends?
2007-01-18 18:25:10 · 4 answers · asked by lalagirly 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
With my gf at the time, and her best friend. Her best friend was straight, we were drunk, and she started the whole thing. No one convinced anyone to do anything, its so cliche, but it just happened. It did ruin our friendship with her best friend for a while after that. I enjoyed it but the problems that came afterwards surely were not worth it. I am glad I experienced it once but I doubt I would do it again, I prefer the one on one experience with just one lover.
2007-01-19 18:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by catfight1980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, but I thought I'd answer from an experienced swinger's point of view.
"Were you convinced by a lover or friend to have a threesome with one of your female friends?"
Successful swingers will tell you that to be successful, and to prevent any resentful feelings, nobody should be "convinced", "coerced", or "manipulated" into having a threesome or moresome.
Also the idea of a male being the instigator all the time is false. Most of the time, yes. All the time, no. In fact, several studies have shown that it is women that bring up the idea of including others in their sex life 30% of the time.
"Did it ruin your friendship? Did it cause the both of you to loose trust in one another? Did you enjoy it and want to do it again? Are you still friends?"
My wife and I have always believed it's easier to make friends out of swingers than swingers out of friends. Sex changes the dynamics of a friendship. When you start the friendship out with sex as the driving reason you met, then dimension is already clearly defined. For this reason we would never try to seduce a non-swinger friend. Too much drama could ensue afterward. We stick to those already in the Lifestyle.
Hope that helps.
2007-01-19 14:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my male friend convinced me and his girlf, we havent spoken for a while but after the fun we still spoke and were friends. me and another female friend took a guy we know home with us, it was our unspoken idea, we r better friends than ever, ye we enjoyed it, now when we get drunk i have to stop her wandering hands, wed do it again but we both have boyfs.
2007-01-19 03:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a love triangle... complicated...
Three friends - fortunately no couple.
Wouldn't recommend it... it DOES ruin the friendships.
2007-01-19 03:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋