where exactly is the line drawn between a massage and a "sex act"?

Question

i understand that a "happy ending" (i.e. HJ) constitutes a sex act and therefore is illegal.

but what if during the course of a massage, the masseuse simply touches the private parts as part of the massage. not an actual HJ, but just touches brushes her fingers along them? is that illegal?

what if she never actually touches your private parts, but she clearly sees them because you are nude during the massage? is that illegal? could that constitute a "sex act"

Answer 1

Only a sex act if you have to pay more, or it was clearly implied up front otherwise give us the name of the massuse, and we will all go for massages with accidental brushing of fingers along

Answer 2

There is a lot of difference between a real massage and sex acts portrayed as a massage. In a regular massage by a trained professional, you are typically nude, but do have a towel over your butt and pubic area, there is nothing to massage here so there is no reason any massusse would be accidently even touching that area.

Answer 3

That's a really good question, actually. I can relate to it a lot. I've been in several situations where I wanted to do it on my own but after months of futile attempts, I finally gave up and called upon my mother, literally, for help. My mom is very supportive and always eager to help, so I know in the back of my mind I can always go to her. That's been a blessing sometimes and a curse sometimes. I'm 25, so I've had 8 adult years to learn how to handle things on my own without falling back on my parents. I'm getting better at it. At this point, I've pretty much decided I'm not going back to my parents for help unless my only alternative is homelessness or death.

Answer 4

No not a sex act I've had nurse's touch me in weird way while under Anastasia

Answer 5

improper touching during a massage would be considered illegal

Answer 6

dude if this happens then had better be really quiet about it cause places get shut down for this..i had heard of this but it ended up being humpty hump if you know what i mean..let me know what happens wow.

Answer 7

Well if it was an accident then maybe its legal not sure... if she starts massaging it then its probably not legal

Answer 8

An extra twenty bucks

otherwise, no

Answer 9

i believe if you contact your president Clinton he can give you an answer hes an expert on this subject

Answer 10

intentional (not accidental) touching of the private parts, oral stimulation, penetration, etc. cheers!