love of teenagers
2007-01-18 17:31:57 · 35 answers · asked by dark_angel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Love isn't a noun, it's a verb. It's something you do. Sex isn't the only way, it's not even the biggest way.
2007-01-18 19:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,it is not.Teenagers mistake "feelings" for someone for love.However,it isnt impossible for a teenager to love.They are unable to show their love in another form,and their hormones control alot.There are alot of changes going through the body,especially at that specific time in their lives,for males and females alike.In fact,it isnt just teenagers,some adult actually do this also,but you brought up teenagers so well stick on that subject.A relationship based on actually feelings,and other activities is actually alot more interesting,and will stay "new" longer.The reason being,if a relationship is based on nothing but sex,and the physical attraction between two people,that is one activity that they will do,they wont see the other person from other aspects other than their bodies.They have nothing to communicate about in another way,because their whole relationship was build around sexual intercourse and their physical appearance/attraction to their partner.It tends to become "Old",less fresh,and less new.This happens because they actually become "bored",they know what to expect,and depend on that alone to keep their relationship together.I could go on for a while on this topic,but the bottom line is.There will always be that physical attraction,as thats the first thing we see and notice about a person which isnt bad.However,there should be something other than the physical attraction that keeps you in this relationship teenager,or adult.Good luck and have a good morning hun.
2007-01-18 21:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex isn't the only expression of love. Love in undefinable. It is an emotion that your body feels when it is near another body of the same frequency and energy. Sex is a body food. You are here because your parents got it together one night, they are here becuse your grand parents got it together. I take it you are a girl and are sexual. Fine noting wrong with that, But you are a girl, not a guy and guys are sex orientated whereas, girls are life orientated. Guys want to feed their need to lay a girl while a girl gives in becasue she feels it's her duty, (Whatever)! Girls like sex more than guys but when they want it not when it is expected of them. many girelds I've spoken to exprees the same feeling as you and I tell them they are saturated by the guy. A gir's body vibrates on ahigher frequency than a guy. She has what I cal, the hundred sex level units. When guy comes along who she likes and they get close and kissy, her level units are sent up to say 180 or so. When a guy enters a women he sucks then energy from her. If when he's flooded the womb and the girl is left with say a hundred and twent level units she feels good.
But lets say he didn't send those units up much past a hundred and has his way with her, She is being taken below the hundred base level and feels flat and left wondering why she let him have his wicked way. thjat is saturation. Body has had enough of being close to a guy in the nude and being entered. It wats a rest and so you came up with the question about sex being the expression of love and the andswere is. No! Love is a body food the cake and sex, well that's the icing on the cake. The male body if it connects to the female body in a way that supports the being here of the female body, the the female body gives off an energy that is lapped up by the male body which becomes healthier and stronger to the female body. The sex thing then becomes an enjoyablesharing of pleasure, not a chore becose Guy X is boyfriend and this leg spliting is part of being his girlfriend. You are a woman in life, not a sex toy for any guy who thnks his tool is the right device for your fanny. You have more selfesteem and emothions that a guy, the higher he keeps these within the happier you are being with him. If you can go out knowing that he isn't looking for a place to lay you, you enjoy going out with him. The body needs another body to be friends with and when your body meets a guy who it likes, and who is near your levels of vibration and frequency, you feel something special about that guy an things happen slowly for you. You go out more and enjoy the talks and finding out what you know and whatv he knows then when ther monent gets closer togeter for you, it is different and your body goes to the moon and back at having found someone who has connected. Love is an enmotion that you experience and sex is the binding strenthening icing to that bonding emtion. Enjoy being who you are. Hope I've helped you Teema
2007-01-18 18:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by teemasday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember in high school, not too long ago, sex is no longer considered an expression of love, we simply viewed it as sex, it was the "cool" thing to do. It's a shame how most teens first sexual experience is often with someone they came upon with no real emotional attachment. I regret my first time when I was just 13yrs old a freshman, and when a senior 18yrs old became, "madly in love with me." I was popular with my friends because, I was going out with a senior, and as time passed, maybe 2 months into our "relationship" he asked me to do it, I didn't want to but, I was scared he was going to dump me and I wouldn't be cool anymore, so I did it. A teenager is confused and often engages in sexual behavior, not because of the deep emotional bond with that other, but for the simple worry of what others might say if I didn't do it. Most teens will lie about being sexually active in front of friends, they actually feel embarrassed to say they are virgins. I am 20 years old, and regret the experiences I lived in the past, all of the promiscuity I was exposed to, I now know what true love is, I found it in my husband and father of my future baby, I have put all of my past life in the hand's of God, asked for his forgiveness, and asked for his guidance to be able to guide my son in the future.
2007-01-18 19:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Yesi20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in fact it is one of the results of love, not an expression of love. People that think sex is an expression of love do not understand love. Sex is physical, love is emotional, psychological, spiritual, fulfilling, nuturing, comforting, etc. When sex is offered to get love you get a relationship with more holes than swiss cheese and no love.
2007-01-18 18:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many ways to express love - sex is only 1 way.
Something as little as a good gesture or a bunch of flowers can sometimes mean so much more
2007-01-18 17:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, sex is not the only expression of love. Society only wants people to believe that with having sex that you must not be in love.
2007-01-19 05:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by QUEEN ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
However, most teenage boys think that sex is the ONLY expression of love - boy do they have this wrong!
Examples of expressions of love; giving someone a rose, giving someone a piece of jewelry, giving someone a special day at a spa and the list could go on and on.
2007-01-18 18:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is realizing if you are prepared for itto be responsible of the consequences. You're too young enjoy your teens or suffer of not being able to go to school and enjoyng the company of your friends. I have known friends and classmates that went through this and got pregnant many of them were not able to finish studies their relationships did not last. Your future will be destroyed....so think about it!
2007-01-18 21:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Maria Cristina Andrea D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No showing your care for them or being there for them or being able to have a laugh instead of fighting shows you love someone, sex is just one of the ways to express you love someone
And its not expressing your love if he is forcing you so be careful
Goodluck sweetie xoxoxo
2007-01-18 17:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by fi_beans90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋