she just randomly kinda told me and some otehr friends that she just found out that she's bi?
i really don't know what to do. i am totally not bi but i don't realy care if other people are, i just don't know what to say besides that. and i am not really good friends with her i really don't know alot about her or anything.
Help!
2007-01-18 17:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why should you do anything? If you truly don't care if what other peoples' orientation is, then there shouldn't be a problem. Talk to her just like you always have. If she makes a point to mention it constantly during converstation, she's just looking for attention. But more than likely, she just needed to get it off of her chest ... especially if she just blurted it out like that. She probably doesn't expect you to say anything about it ... and it will make her feel better if you continue to treat her like you always have. The fact that she's bisexual doesn't change who she's always been before now.
2007-01-18 17:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do or say anything. I'm bi too, when I told my friends it was more to liberate myself ( I also hoped secretly that I wasn't alone in my feelings for both sexes). Chances are your friend just wanted to give herself some inner strength, and prepare you guys for the possibility of her bringing a girlfriend with her somewhere.
2007-01-19 01:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Isabel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like you always have....if she's really your friend then this shouldn't affect the way you treat her. I miean, she's not asking to date you is she? If you can't treat her the same then I suggest re-thinking this thing you call friendship.
2007-01-19 01:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by ~*LadyL*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you need help with. Maybe deep down you aren't sure of your own sexual orientation. You do not have to do anything just remain being her friend
2007-01-19 02:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by veronicawilliams1969 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just treat her like anothe casual friend. Now that she has confided in you, she probably does not want any dramatics.
2007-01-19 01:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should remain normal as if nothing has changed, but if she tries to ever crack on to you; you can just tell her that you are not bi.
XoX
Melanie
2007-01-19 01:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ch!cks b4 D!cks anyday!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure how someone "finds out" they're bi... but just treat him/her like anyone else... afterall, they're just as human as you are!!
2007-01-19 01:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by spotted_moofers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋