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I'm in 10th grade. Currently homeschooled because we moved and I did not like my new school. Before, I went to public school. Homeschooling is alright, however, I miss the friends. The reason I didnt like my new school was because you have to be "accepted" by the other kids. Clearly, I wasnt. Too fat. I have since worked on that and am losing weight heathly. Also, another reason (dont laugh) but I can open the combination locks on the lockers. So, my mom offered to buy me a lock so I can practice. (both of my parents also cant open those locks) Anyway, I'm a person who feels I need to be liked by others. I try not to care about what others think, but I do. I really wanna go back to public school. One minute I feel strong and feel like I could walk in there and be fine. The next, I feel like I'd be in a "panic" mode. I feel like I am missing so much by being homeschooled. I have the rest of this school year to look good and master those locks! . Any suggestions? What should I do?

2007-01-18 17:07:10 · 6 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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oh honey,do whatever makes you comfortable.like yourself and don't worry so much.keep practicing on the lock too

2007-01-18 17:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Think of it this way: a whole new school, a whole new you! Nobody know who you are, so you have an opportunity that many people don't get. You can become whoever you want; confident, flirty, outgoing, friendly.... It's all up to you. Fake it 'till you make it. Just because your shy and insecure, nobody has to know. Fake confidence. Smile at people. Voice your opinion in class. Introduce yourself to the cool kids. You don't have to be skinny to be liked. Don't assume the worst. If people are whispering,it's not always going to be about you. After a while, you will become more confident on your own. No one wants to hang out with someone who is insecure. They're just not fun to be around. So be loud, make yourself known! Pretty soon you will have allot many new friends, and will wonder why you wasted so many years.
Also, anyone who is going to judge you by your looks is not someone you want to be friends with. TRUST ME!
Try joining a club. Find what interest you. It's the best place to meet new people because you will be spending allot of time together that;s not just in class.
Congratulations on become more healthy, physically and mentally!
Good luck!

2007-01-19 01:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ BuffaloGirl ♥ 5 · 0 0

I think you have deeper issues than just being home schooled or public school. The other kids will sense your insecurities and eat you alive. Sorry it's probably no the answer you wanted I was just trying to be honest. Good luck.

2007-01-19 03:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by jipp 5 · 1 0

Um, If you weren't such a little bi­tch about going to a public school you probably could have made friends by this semester. They wouldn't accept you because you were too fat? WTF. Fat people at my school have friends. That's such a lame excuse to be homeschooled. The only people that don't have friends are people that don't try. I hate when people say they don't have friends, it's like, go talk to people dumbass.

2007-01-19 01:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

my niece has anxiety attacks too
she is getting help, you should too
dont worry about what others think of you
be kind and walk in the steps of the Lord, and you'll be fine

2007-01-19 01:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have issues, see a counselor. Your mother must have been overprotective of you as a child. Does she still cut the crust off of your sandwiches also?

2007-01-19 01:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Phlebotomist 3 · 0 1

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