someone I know has had 3 abortions while she was under the age of 20. All by the same person whom she was with for seven years. There was really no excuse behind it... just a young mind who was not ready for a child. She is VERY fearful of God. Has a child of her own now. Would never even CONCEIVE of it now. Will she be doomed to hell???
2007-01-18 17:01:16 · 28 answers · asked by Darcy 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I literally cry my eyes out thinking of it today!! I feel I can't live with myself anymore. Especially looking at my child now.
2007-01-18 17:12:48 · update #1
Absolutely not. Alot of people might say otherwise, but only God can be the judge of that
2007-01-18 17:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bre 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
According to Christian Beliefs, if one asks for Forgivness of Sins ONCE, they are forgiven, to ask a second time is to doubt God and the promise made.
To worry is even spoken of by Jesus the Christ, he said, Do not worry, what good does it do? Look at the bird up yonder, it doesnt worry and God takes care of it, look at the pretty flowers, they dont toil but they blossom. I know that isnt verbatum, but its close, Matthew 6 somewheres near there.
No man knows the future , no man knows the judgement or the day of it, so dont worry, live this day good and help any that may have need.
Rememver if you asked for forgiveness then you are forgiven, if you ask again for the same forgiveness then you doubt God exists.
Choose wisely.
2007-01-19 01:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you believe in god then you should know that god forgives us all for everything that we do he died for our sins... i understand her feelings but she has to forgive herself because god has already he forgives people that kill, people that are gay etc. because everyone sins everyday all day even if they don't think so... no one is like god and no one can be him . what kills me about people are the ones that judge other people not realizing that is a sin as well so as long as she knows who god is then she will be OK people al ways say if you have one it is a sin or if your gay etc. but god does not stop loving us because of that if that is the case i guess we all are going to hell then... there is so many women that have done what she has done she is definitely not the only women just tell her to listen to herself and god and not everyone else because people who think they are the holiest and tell you you are wrong and are going to hell usually are the ones who will go there fro judging someone else there is only one god and it is no one on this earth
Tell her to keep her head up
2007-01-19 01:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it, but if she is, then so am I, so please let her know that I'll be there to help guide her if I go first! I hope she'll do the same for me. Honestly, I believe that she & I have paid for our sins by sending our children to God & sparing them a life with a Mother who was not ready for them. We appreciate the ones we have & we will be wiser because of our "faults of the past". God is love & we didn't kill our babies needlessly. It was a viable option at the time & we had our reasons for letting the men in our lives allow this to happen. Hell is on Earth. This proves it!
2007-01-19 01:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, she will not be "doomed to hell". Jesus' main message was forgiveness...that's why he died for us. If she believe that Jesus is God, that he died and rose again, and she accepts him into her heart as her savior, all is forgiven.
what worries me though, is that she will have a hard time forgiving herslef....it's such a sad situation. you would think that after one abortion they would have learned to use birth control...this story is just another example of why abortion should be illegal...people use it as a form of birth control.
if this "young mind" was not ready for a child, then she wasn't ready for unprotected sex...i think if abortion wasn't as readily available as a "way out," people would be forced to be more careful, but those are just my thoughts.
2007-01-19 01:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We have no way of knowing that. We know there's a Hell, but we don't know if there's anyone there. Only God can make that determination. I'm glad she realizes now the terrible things she has done are an abomination.
2007-01-19 01:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rick N 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no not if she is truly sorry and asks for his forgiveness and vows to never do it again. You see in Gods eyes all sins are equal. Example....to most of us we wouldn't consider stealing as bad as murder...but to God it is a equal and both are forgivable. I hope you get the point!
2007-01-19 01:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by honeyEMT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously don't believe in hell . As long as whe is not suffering from that ordeal now good. some need counseling after such.
Hell is a harsh figure of speech for this kind of thing.
2007-01-19 01:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as she's asked God to forgive her. Given that she has a child, that's a good sign.
2007-01-19 01:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by MoltarRocks 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is VERY fearful of GOD so you say...then she wouldve kept the child or used a damn condom. Abortion is not a game...that is a HUMAN life that she treated like a waste. Im not God...but 3 abortions? 3? That is way excessive. And to those who beleive that a person isnt "mindfully ready for a child"...if you were "mindfully ready" to hit the sack, then you must take the consequences...
2007-01-19 01:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
sometimes learning the correct answers is a very painful process .
I suggest you celebrate your new baby and your new freedom to love yourself !
Your a good person.
God loves the sinner but not the sin.
I don't believe it could have been a sin if you didn't know any better. Just my 2cents
2007-01-19 01:22:08 · answer #11 · answered by jay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋