OK Here is the situation....my boyfriend and I never seem to have time to hang out with just us....with the kids and him working all the time it is hard...but we agreed that everynight we would go to the gym and tan together.....I arranged for a sitter to come @ 8:30 starting yesterday...well she showed up but we went late and only to tan because he really wanted to finish watching American Idol..tonight he says he is not going to go because he wantd to watch Nashville Star and his white pants aren't clean.. so I went anyway .he has know idea that this hurt my feelings because if I said something he would say I was complaining..now he says I am crazy because I do not want him to see what I am writing until after it is posted...I know he is playing when he says this but still I am sensitive about our time issue....It is he that is always stating that I never make time for him because I am to busy with the kids......I feel I did my part by getting the sitter and he has showed me nothing?
2007-01-18 16:17:23 · 2 answers · asked by just_curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, so the tanning thing didn't work. I would ask to schedule a date night with him on a regular basis. Like every other Saturday or something. Make it special, just you and him. If he just wants to sit on the couch after agreeing to go, you have a problem. If he's your bf and not your husband, maybe it's time to let this one go.
2007-01-18 16:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did your part. You did very very well. However it all was for nothing because your bf is an insensitive jerk and you need to dump his sorry as-s. You are married to a freaking couch potato that is more interested in tv shows then in spending time with someone who wants to be with him.
Don't know how long you've been together, but honey it's not going to get any better. Get a man that deserves you.
2007-01-18 17:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋